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Cheating
While on my honeymoon I got the news my cousin's wife killed herself. Soooo young and full of life....why she did this because her husband was cheating. Love can make you do some crazy things! I have refrained from speaking on this matter because my thoughts on this situation ......is just ughhh I just wish women would leave people husbands alone and men stay where they belong...... (yes the woman he cheated with met in their home) ughhh
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Re: Cheating
NOW.....who in the H3LL called to tell you that ISH on your honeymoon? They should be SHOT! I mean I know its family and all, but d@mn it at least let you enjoy your time away and tell you when you get back. #bloodboils
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Try not to be mad at whomever made the decision to call you, I can't imagine their intentions were anything except that you'd want to know as soon as possible. While it's true you only get one honeymoon you and the mr. can spend the rest of your lives making every trip you take as special as this one should've been. I'm so sorry honey {{hugs}}
I was just eta: especially regretful if they had kids and then I saw your post. Unimaginable.
[QUOTE]Mrsbd....dont get me started on that hoe.....but its crazy this whole situation. I am not going to pretend I was close to his wife because i wasnt , i never cared for her but for another woman to steal your home. Must hurt like hell
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Girl...I wish a itch would..she will have wished she didnt come my way..I cant imagine why she thought to kill herself over that tho..there is more to life than a man who cheated.. and Im with MrsSmith2be..who in hell called you on the honeymoon ?!
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[QUOTE]My mother.....smh I just dont see the logic in her choice! and if you knew her you would be shocked! a true diva and seemed to love her children to death!
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You never know what people are struggling with. She may have known about this other woman for a long time and depending on how long theyve been married, if there were other other women, etc (not to be all on your cuz) LIFE can take a toll on people especially if they aren't grounded enough to know WHO THEY are and not what it looks like they aren't living up to be. H3ll my kids make me wanna take myself out sometimes (not really) but these kids....LAWD! They drive you to drink.....or have some kind of outlet. Kids on top of a "fill in the blank" husband....and a "friend" turned mistress......OMG!
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prayers for you & all of her family
I am praying for everyone involved.... Definitely a hard situation!!!
First I send my condolences to you and your family. Suicide is a HARD pill to swallow. I have experienced it first hand with my daughter's father. I agree suicide is a selfish act (coming from people that have probably never contemplated suicide a day in there lives), but at the same time we have no idea what is on people's hearts and where their minds are when they decide to take their lives. I tried to talk my daughters dad out of doing it, but he had his mind made up and he was very apologetic about what he was about to do.
I am really saddened that she felt like her only way to resolve being cheated on was to take her life. Usually there are signs that people miss when people are depressed, going through something or whatever. I pray for her children because they need a mother...its hard enough that they have a cheating father which if they find that out ever it will make it hard to re-build a relationship once they know that is why their mother is gone.