FI's best friend and best man is planning this huge Bachelor Party for the end of June where they will be gone 3 days--It is actually one of the weekends BM's and I all have free and might do a Bachelorette party. He hasn't told FI where they are going and FI just found out from other GM yesterday which dates they were actually going.
My sis (and MOH) is currently working on planning the shower and hasn't mentioned anything about a Bachelorette party recently. Last time she did bring it up she was thinking about going up to Wisconsin Dells for a weekend. A couple of my BM's are on a tight budget this summer so I don't know if this would be do-able though. Also for all I know my sis has a lot on her plate right now anyways as she is graduating college in May and she might not even have time to plan a Bachelorette party which I understand.
This whole situation is just starting to wear on me because FI brings up his Bachelor party daily, whereas I'm basically planning this whole wedding. I get he's excited, but hello the wedding itself is the bigger picture here. Also his best man is a great guy, but he broke up with his live-in gf a couple months ago and he has been having one-night stands regularly and has this huge party attitude now, so I'm kind of nervous about what he has planned. He keeps telling FI it is going to top their college spring break trip which consisted of picking up girls, getting wasted and more one-night stands...so I can only imagine. I trust FI completely, but I have seen him completely hammered a couple times and I'm worried about what might happen if he is drunk to the point of not knowing what is going on.
Like I said, FI doesn't know exactly where they are going. He did mention it might also be the Dells. If that is what my sis is still planning on doing, should I ask best man where he is planning on going? As I mentioned before there is a good chance if I do have one it would be that same weekend-or at least that Sat-and we would all be in the same spot at the same time as the Bachelor party. I probably sound really selfish, but I guess it's just a combination of worrying about what they are doing and me being a little jealous that he has this big, awesome bachelor party planned when I don't even know if I will have one, not to mention a little jealous he talks about 24/7 and takes more of an interest in this than helping me plan.