I need advice!! My fiance and I had an officiant picked out (informaly) hadn't paid anything ... then starting going to a church where we liked the pastor a lot. We've probably been going now for a couple months. About a month ago we asked him about marrying us. He said he'd do it - and that he offered pre marital counseling, which we are looking forward to - and doesn't charge anything to marry us. I've heard from him maybe once or twice since then - seen him at church but he struggles to remember my name ( i understand w/ an attendance of around 1000 guests). However - I just get the feeling like I am worried that he won't be reliable, or that he won't show up, or will have something come up, etc. One thing I was to be confident in is the person who will be doing the actual marrying! The wedding date isn't until October 20th ... so, I don't know. Am I just stressing?? I sent him an e-mail on Monday touching base and asking if we could meet in the next few weeks to discuss the process. I haven't heard back from him. Help! I don't want to be a naggy bride to be - but I also want to have my ducks in a row!
