We are both 51. We are thinking of having are ceremony be more of a mexican themed/decor and the reception which is in a hall directly next to the garden area (where the ceremoney is) more of a whimsical themed event.
I hesitate to use the word theme as we are using colors/flowers and decor we like without worrying if things 'go together'.
I've had some people make a face when I say the ceremony is one 'theme' and the reception is another 'theme'.
I"m over 50 dammit, can't I do what I want?
I am sure hoping the wedding police don't come arrest me.