I got an engagement ring from my now fiancee 1 1/2 years ago. I am not very material and i could have cared less how much it cost or even if it was tiny. In my opinion, the love you have for another does not show in how big the ring is.
Anyways, ever since then, he constantly rubs in my face how expensive my ring was and that he expects the same for an engagement ring so he would marry me. No ring-no marriage.
I am not sure what to do. he earns more than me and i cannot afford a ring for 12 k right now. Thats the one he wants.
What should i say/do?