Non-negotiables and breaking points.

Re: Non-negotiables and breaking points.

• BecW2be

  

  July 2010 edited July 2010

  Who the hell does your aunt think her husband is cheating with? The sock, or the vaseline?!? That's hilarious!

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• AllAboutTheBenjamin member

  

  July 2010

  LOL Bec
  
  Yeah I don't really get it - she says that it's sexual activity that doesn't include her, and that he's using images of women that aren't her - then that's cheating.
  
  Which is pretty dumb.
  
  I would leave my husband if he was emotionally or physically cheating on me with another woman - but you can't really fault a guy for enjoying explicit film or photos.  Hell you can't even fault women for that.
  

  

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• BecW2be

  

  July 2010

  Issues. Your aunt has them.

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• AllAboutTheBenjamin member

  

  July 2010

  Agreed.

  

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• misscarolb

  

  July 2010

  I think everyone touched on it a little - and seemed to agree/understand - but just to clarify: The religion thing is just that I wouldn't want to raise children with someone who didn't share most of my beliefs and values. No matter what those beliefs or values are, religious or not. 

  
  

  What I brought up with FI is what would you do when one parent wanted to attend church and the other did't? What are the kids supposed to do? Especially if they aren't old enough to choose?

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