sorry guys, i have another one for you all
Ok so the flower girls are FH's little cousins. They are 4 and 6. I had asked them and their mother about 9 months ago. I check in with her once every couple month to see how shopping is going and if she found anything she likes. She said she hasn't had time. So I took the liberty of reseraching some flower girl dresses and local stores that were only $50 and less! (Since I figured money played into her decision since she had 4 kids)..she responded 2 weeks later saying that $50 was way too much on a dress. If you go to any bridal shop, the dresses start at $80 and go up to $200, so I don't think I'm being too expensive. So I started sending her ones from JCP, Children's Place and Sears for $35 dollars and she says even those were too expensive. WTF?
As our wedding slowly approches, I am getting worried she will never get a dress in time until yesterday when she emailed me and said she found a dress on Amazon--USED for 20 bucks. Um, I don't mean to sound snotty but I don't feel like being cheap and buying used dresses is appropriate for a wedding. If you say you will be a wedding, that means you compromise with the bride and get what makes her happy. Not shop consigment because you're stingy. GRR! What do you guys think? Is she being rude or am I just overreacting?