I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point

em01092 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]The ceremony & adults only reception tabs left me speechless. And then I read what DNB wrote.
Posted by bree4305[/QUOTE]

<div>Same here.</div><div>
</div><div>Anyone can basically find out anything about you, your event, and just show up...I wouldn't want that. I would take out your last names and privatize the pages concerning specific locations and times.</div><div>
</div><div>Edit: Actually, can you take your last name off of your wedding website? I think I tried once before and couldn't figure it out. It just like shows up on the main page and heck its in your url....</div>

mica178 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : He actually has two jobs and is working his way through school, he goes to DePaul now and his major is Business. I don't understand how this has anything to do with my post ... but if it makes you all feel better to bring other people down then I'm 100% sure you all will be apart of that 60% divorce rate. Your attitudes disgust me, I absolutely can't believe someone would marry any of you
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>Hey there. Chill.</div><div>
</div><div>Is this a GBCK, or just a GBCE?</div>

Beachy730 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : He actually has two jobs and is working his way through school, he goes to DePaul now and his major is Business. I don't understand how this has anything to do with my post ... but if it makes you all feel better to bring other people down then I'm 100% sure you all will be apart of that 60% divorce rate. Your attitudes disgust me, I absolutely can't believe someone would marry any of you
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>And there we have it. </div><div>
</div><div>Seriously, I wasn't knocking his job. I was pointing out the fact that I was easily able to google him and find personal information, like where he works, and where he went to school. I didn't at all mean it as a knock against what he does for a living. But what do I know, I'm too busy working towards my impending divorce. Perhaps I should take a lesson from the mature posters like yourself.</div>

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

I'm not trying to bring you down and that's great about him. I have no problem with his schooling. I'm just making a point that you have way too much information available on the internet. Including your twitter account?

DramaGeek · April 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : He actually has two jobs and is working his way through school, he goes to DePaul now and his major is Business. I don't understand how this has anything to do with my post ... but if it makes you all feel better to bring other people down then <strong>I'm 100% sure you all will be apart of that 60% divorce rate. Your attitudes disgust me, I absolutely can't believe someone would marry any of you</strong>
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>That was fast. Might be a new record!</div><div>
</div><div>Brittany, want to lay any bets on how long it will take my husband to realize how hideous I am and divorce me? A year after the wedding, two?</div>

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

OOT!!! I need invite wording help??

slbinpink · April 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : He actually has two jobs and is working his way through school, he goes to DePaul now and his major is Business. I don't understand how this has anything to do with my post ... but if it makes you all feel better to bring other people down then I'm 100% sure you all will be apart of that 60% divorce rate. Your attitudes disgust me, I absolutely can't believe someone would marry any of you
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

Honestly, all you have done is say mean things on here today, I'm just going to go with that you are a very angry lady... make your self a stiff drink and get over your self...

Beachy730 · April 2011

Roxy, we clearly need to team up more often. We are like super secret super sleuths.

mica178 · April 2011

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Roxy, you rarely visit, but do I see that you're engaged?!?!

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

No, no, no... invite for a friends bachelorette!

Dnb- totes! Google masters.

brittanyjterrell · April 2011

When I google my name, none of social networks come up. That BTerrell88 twitter is NOT me and I don't even have a MySpace page. So.... and my wedding page from the Knot is something I made when I first started, I have recently updated my page with a different site and it is 100% better..

What exactly is wrong with a wishing well wedding?

ootmother2 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]OOT!!! I need invite wording help??
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

for the party you posted about on S B ?

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

It wasnt BTerrell 88 twitter..it's a different name and definitely looks like you.
I'd tell you whats wrong with a wishing well but I know you wont care or change your mind so I wont waste my time.

ootmother2 · April 2011

Honestly, this rant doesn't feel quite as intense as the one you posted on Chit Chat

DeadUtopia · April 2011

I'm no Emily Post at ALL, but just the wording for the wishing well thing would be considered really rude etiquette wise, that's all.

Edit: And the fact that you're telling people what to give you...gifts aren't mandatory from a wedding guest.

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

Yes ma'am, Oot.

DramaGeek · April 2011

I would so bring a non-returnable gift to a wishing well wedding. I'm such a SUPER rude "bride."

j_jaye · April 2011

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[QUOTE]I just know someone here has ignored the whole "if you sent an STD, you HAVE to send an Invite" rule... I can't be the only one. I saw someone ask the question the other day because they no longer invited people. STOP IT.. you all kill me, like.. it's just a board.. why so serious?
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

Yes we are ignoring etiquette and not sending an invite to one of the people we sent a std to. Rude B*tch up and died on us...how rude so I figure she just doesn't deserve an invite now.

Beachy730 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]When I google my name, none of social networks come up. That BTerrell88 twitter is NOT me and I don't even have a MySpace page. So.... and my wedding page from the Knot is something I made when I first started, I have recently updated my page with a different site and it is 100% better.. What exactly is wrong with a wishing well wedding?
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>You're right, Roxy and I just completely guessed all of the information we posted. And regardless of if you changed your website, clearly the other on is still active, and still contains all of your personal information. </div>

ootmother2 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]Yes ma'am, Oot.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

I was looking at the stationery you had linked there. Do you have to use just one of those or are there others?

brittanyjterrell · April 2011

Thanks for all the input. I will be sure to take all of it into consideration. No more how RUDE or EXTRA each comment was...

DramaGeek · April 2011

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[QUOTE]Yes, please do take it into consideration. Don't get all bitter over what people on the internet say to you, just take it as constructive criticism and good advice. If you want to be polite to your guests, I suggest a major makeover for your website. <strong>Good luck.</strong>
Posted by SkettiHeadie[/QUOTE]

<div>KA would be so proud!</div>

DeadUtopia · April 2011

I totally took our last names off my site now lol
I never even thought to look at it cuz I hadn't set up my website yet and thought that nothing was viewable on it...oooops

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : I was looking at the stationery you had linked there. Do you have to use just one of those or are there others?
Posted by ootmother2[/QUOTE]
I'd prefer to use one of those as I've used the website before, they're evites (which I prefer not to use but make the most sense in this case) and it's free.
It's just a bachelorette party/ lingerie shower and I don't know how to politely word it all. Basically, everyone needs to meet at X for dinner and what not then we will go to dessert but everyones encouraged to bring lingerie (since it's a lingerie party) and I'd like everyone to dress in black, silver or green. Oh and I'd like to keep it mostly a surprise. I feel like the freaking party needs its own website.
I'm guessing
<em>It's a bachelorette/ Lingerie Shower for CR!
Join us for dinner at Restaurant at time on date

The bride wears: Bra: DD Underwear: L
Attire: Black, green or silver</em>
I just don't want it to sound tacky or demanding.

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

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[QUOTE]Thanks for all the input. I will be sure to take all of it into consideration. No more how RUDE or <strong>EXTRA</strong> each comment was...
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]
Extra? Huh?

mica178 · April 2011

OP, this is probably after the fact, but wedding gifts are actually optional. Telling your guests on your website that you want cash only is presuming that they will bring you a gift, and it's telling them what to bring you. It's not really a gift if it's not volitional.

ootmother2 · April 2011

attire? for the shower/bach party or do you mean for gifts? That confuses me, the rest is fine

and jealous of anyone who's DD

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

Haha attire for the party. So if I move that around you think I'm okay and don't come across as bossy?

Yea, she always offers to give up a boob. We just haven't figured out how yet.

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

Bree- Her wedding colors and lime green and silver. I thought throwing in the black would make it easier for everyone. Like a black dress with silver or green accessories if they wanted? I'd love everyone to dress up in someway but wanted to make it easy.

nda_roxybabe · April 2011

Yea, see, I worry about that and people not wanting to dress up...

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