Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long

em01092 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_kicked-out-maid-of-honor-vent-kind-of-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:1a257514-60aa-46fa-8ae8-2d9169214229Post:f24c75b4-56f3-4cc0-88ce-37d919db0502">Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long</a>:
[QUOTE]well excuse the hell outta me for reading that incorrectly! i swear you all are like sharks!
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

<div>We don't bite. We're just honest. I along with several other posters were trying to get you to see things from another perspective so that you might reconsider how you handled this. Apparently that's not what you want, here or in RL. You just want people to agree with you no matter what. Sorry we didn't validate your behavior. Like I said, if you're fine with what you/she did, then whatever. Our opinions only matter if you let them.</div>

OBX2011 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]well excuse the hell outta me for reading that incorrectly! i swear you all are like sharks!
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

No, I am not a shark....thank you very much.

We don't validate bad ideas here. Like I said, before, BOTH of you are in the wrong here and BOTH of you need to grow up and act like adults.

JennLax · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_kicked-out-maid-of-honor-vent-kind-of-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:1a257514-60aa-46fa-8ae8-2d9169214229Post:16d20454-df9d-4a63-92c8-7774cb4eb181">Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long</a>:
[QUOTE]People "nip" buds off plants, they don't nip butts - at least not publicly and probably not without being arrested.
Posted by skippylouwho[/QUOTE]

Bhahahahaah -- I embarassingly laughed out loud in my office at this, FTW!

LetsHikeToday · March 2012

I think it sucks that your fiancé is dropping out of this kids life just like that. Because 3 "adults" can't seem to get along.

ErBear1010 · March 2012

This sis why ex who raised my daughter since 6 months doesn't see her anymore. It causes too many issues for everyone invloved. That's the root of the problem. And immaturity for all involved.

cortezcharles727 · March 2012

oh my.. that was a fiasco!
well at least things are handled now?
and I do not agree with one the earlier comments about you needing to apologize to the MOH. yes, you were wrong to flip out on the child's mother. But, I do understand where you are coming from about your MOH probably should have backed you up considering they were not friends until the Twitter thing happened.

I'm sorry all of this happened! But, take it as a blessing and just move a long. You say she's burned you more than once, then let her go. I know 18 years is a really long time, but you'll heal over time. the MOH seems to be two faced and fake if you ask me,
I went through something similar a while back. It still kinda hurts, but I'm okay.
Take care (=

Maggie0829 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]<strong>12? ha no. we're not that old.. that's kind of insulting lol</strong>. try 3 years old in the sandbox at pre-k. went from pre-k all the way up to 10th grade together. i went to summer school to get ahead & graduated a year early. went & got ahead in college so i graduated last year, she'll graduate next spring. age doesn't matter at this point, i've seen people my mother's age (mid 40's) act completely a fool over some he said-she said! i'm not ok ending a friendship that was basically feels like a lifetime. it honestly hurts me like losing a sister. however, i am sick of getting burned by her. i have given her soooooo many free passes over the past couple of years, that it's rdiculous! i do feel that i could have handle different parts of Monday a little bit better , but as far as cutting her off, I honestly don't think that i will regret it. I kinda feel like this weight has been lifted off my shoulders. she's already apologizing her her behavior. i did sent her an email this morning aplogizing for snapping when she started defending Jae. but i did explain to her, that that was extremely foul on her part. considering the history over the last 4 years (again, a post for another blog) that I feel it's best if she just leaves me alone. I don't want her to be my MOH and i definitely don't wanna be hers. however, i did agree to allow my oldest son to remain her ring boy ( i'll send him to the wedding with my mother ),.,
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

Why would being 30 be insulting to you? Are you saying that 30 is old? As someone who is close to turing 30, I find your thought process insulting.

Just because I am interested, how old are you and these lovely individuals you surround yourself with?

OBX2011 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]oh my.. that was a fiasco! well at least things are handled now? <strong>and I do not agree with one the earlier comments about you needing to apologize to the MOH</strong>. yes, you were wrong to flip out on the child's mother. But, I do understand where you are coming from about your MOH probably should have backed you up considering they were not friends until the Twitter thing happened. I'm sorry all of this happened! But, take it as a blessing and just move a long. You say she's burned you more than once, then let her go. I know 18 years is a really long time, but you'll heal over time. the MOH seems to be two faced and fake if you ask me, I went through something similar a while back. It still kinda hurts, but I'm okay. Take care (=
Posted by cortezcharles727[/QUOTE]

WRONG!! All of this is horrible advice!

They both need to apologize to one another as both of them are in the wrong here. Just b/c you are a bride, just don't give you the right to be entitled and treat people like crap.

jhackett125 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_kicked-out-maid-of-honor-vent-kind-of-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:1a257514-60aa-46fa-8ae8-2d9169214229Post:9fa826b4-76b8-46de-a0af-bb6551a17974">Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long : Why would being 30 be insulting to you? Are you saying that 30 is old? As someone who is close to turing 30, I find your thought process insulting. Just because I am interested, how old are you and these lovely individuals you surround yourself with?
Posted by Maggie0829[/QUOTE]

since, you're so smart, do the math.
if and when you figure out how old I am, add 3 years my age to get my Fiance's age.

OBX2011 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long : since, you're so smart, do the math. if and when you figure out how old I am, add 3 years my age to get my Fiance's age.
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

Your attitude is foul and unnecessary.

This explains a lot about your MOH situation though.

jhackett125 · March 2012

really now? talking about my attitude is like a pot calling a kettle black sweetheart. actually, I'm "the sweetest thing until you hear that southern accent & then you know she's mad & it's about to get ugly."-hubby to be quote. i think I've been quite nice.

OBX2011 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_kicked-out-maid-of-honor-vent-kind-of-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:1a257514-60aa-46fa-8ae8-2d9169214229Post:861e50fa-5f09-41e2-b4e2-c1b2f542c753">Re: Kicked out Maid of Honor VENT--Kind of long</a>:
[QUOTE]really now? talking about my attitude is like a pot calling a kettle black sweetheart. actually, I'm "the sweetest thing until you hear that southern accent & then you know she's mad & it's about to get ugly."-hubby to be quote. i think I've been quite nice.
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

1) I'm not your sweetheart

2) I could care less what your FI thinks about you.

3) Like I said, your attitude is foul & uneccesary and it certainly explains a lot about your MOH situation.

jhackett125 · March 2012

lol ok... nobody told you to watch the thread. like i said before, I've been MORE than nice. i have absolutely no attitude. good day chick.

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