My mother has dementia and really has no clue I am her daughter even after being her caretaker for several months. My brothers and I have talked about not having her come to the shower or the wedding. I feel bad because she is my mother but she has no clue whats going on and easly frustered by lots of people and noise. Both my brothers are part of the wedding party and we will not be able to shut off the caretaker in ourselves to enjoy the day. Is it wrong to not have her attend? And if so how do I break it to rest the family (aunts/uncles)?
Thank you!