I just need support. I feel like we hit the 40 days until the wedding yesterday and all the family crazy came out. We invited 150 people and had to cut some peoples "guest" to fit people we wanted. We only did this for people who we knew had other family or friends and the wedding they knew and not in a relationship. I get this is hard and not ideal but its more of a space issue than anything. My FI cousin asked if she could bring a friend (more of a drinking buddy since we are having an open bar) and he nicely said probably but let's wait because we slightly over invited and are waiting for more nos. Now, like a week later, his aunt is sending him mean emails stating how unfair it is her daughter can't bring a date when someone on his other side can bring his g/f he has dated for 5 years and we've hung out with. WTF? I want to scream that these people need to just not come. This is just one example of like 3 other similar situations. I just can't believe that people have the balls to get upset about this when its suppose to be our day. Apparently its about everyone else. Am I the only one dealing with this?