I know this sounds bitchy, but I just have to vent somewhere! I've been looking up first dance ideas, and while I realize everyone is entitled to their own opinion of what they believe will make their dream/fantasy wedding come true, I just think a surprise first dance where it starts with a slow song and then a bunch of silly, fast songs play one after the other and the couple has choreographed moves to them is just cheesy, trashy and not classy!!
This isn't Glee, you're not in high school. You're adults, your friends and family didn't come to see you dance bad choreographed moves for one line from 10 different songs in a long mash up... it's not a comedy routine, you're not there to make people laugh or entertain them. It's a celebration of a new life together and the love you share.
And while I'm all up for having fun and dancing your heart out, I think that should be left to the dance floor AFTER the important heartfelt dances like the first dance, father/daughter, mother/son.
Just my opinion of course... I know other people have different opinions and doing silly dances just fits them better... just had to vent!!