AKA, or something?

ZombieNates · July 2012

I think it's hard to describe, too, because it's such an individual experience. I think everyone will feel differently about it or have a different experience with it.

chelseamb11 · July 2012

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[QUOTE]Chels, whenever that happens to me, I always convince myself that's just me coming up with the answers. I'm not saying I have never experienced the presence of God, but it's rare for me.
Posted by NicoleSahara[/QUOTE]

OH I feel you on that :)
Part of being human (for me at least) Is wondering "Is this me talking or God talking?" There are tiems in my life that I KNOW God was talking to me and it wasn't myself, and He has never ever failed me.

kd.joseph · July 2012

Arwo- I like that you ask questions about things like this. I think a lot of people (even Christians) get caught up in their own religion or non-religion and never think to ask questions to understand other points of view.

I know I grew up protestant, but I went to a Synagogue with school. My pastor and I used to say Shalom when I left church on Sunday, I'm sure he humored me because I was a kid, but know one ever chastised me for learning about another culture.

Lizzieyounce · July 2012

Yay, and TK ate my post...

Arwo...I pray. I also fell comfort and company when I do. I'm a Christian, so I operate on faith that it's God who is with me.

However, I also know that there are people out in the world that don't believe in a higher being, and that's cool.

I do believe in the soul, and that the soul needs to be fed, needs to be empathetic, needs to nurture and needs peace. Prayer can be seen as meditation. I meditate more than I "pray" (by prayer I'm taking the Christian definition of prayer). Sometimes I feel the presence of God, sometimes I don't, but in the end I feel more at peace.

From a purely scientific POV, think that meditation, or prayer, is healthy. But one doesn't always feel the results at the time. It's still beneficial to let it go, or offer it up, even if you don't see or feel results at the time.

One doesn't have to be religious, or believe in a deity, to be spiritual.

I feel like I'm explaining it badly, but I hope that it helps you a bit.

kd.joseph · July 2012

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[QUOTE]Arwo- I'm not really sure if I believe in god or not. But I pray to my grandparents. I know that sounds weird and I might get some flack from people who do pray to god but that's what I do. I like praying to them because they "know" me and it feels comfortable.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

I talk to my dad, so not weird at all.

arwo · July 2012

Oh! I do make wishes to the universe. Well, actually, no. That's not right. I don't wish exactly, I hope. I think that's different.

My favorite restaurant is probably the DeLuxe Bar and Grill. I do not claim that it is the best restaurant in Seattle, but they have great burgers, and Wednesdays are Burgerama, where a gigantic burger and fries costs only $5.

Megbo2012 · July 2012

Arwo tell us about your next race!

brandichamberlain · July 2012

Hike- I believe my Grandfather was talking to me when I opened his bible and found the verse I wanted was the last page he marked. Why had I never opened that in the last two years since he passed and I've had it? My belief tells me that there was a devine reason for that.

arwo · July 2012

Hike, I think I remember that you've said that before, and I think it's awesome.

NicoleSahara · July 2012

Chels I know what you mean. When the day came for my parents to make the final decision on whether we were going to stay in WA or move to MT, we all got together as a family and prayed for a big sign that we would know for sure whether to move or stay. And that day on his way to work in downtown Seattle, my dad drove by a new billboard that had just been put up that said "Put yourself in Montana." So we always joke that God gave us our "big sign" that we asked for.

Again like others have said, could just be a coincidence I know, but I choose to see it as more than that.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · July 2012

My faith is something that is of great comfort to me. My personality just isn't condusive to atheism, lol. I very much enjoy my belief in God and that he's watching over me, looking out for me, that I can trust him, all that stuff. I enjoy my beliefs about what happens after I die. I couldn't be a good atheist. The idea that there is just nothing isn't something I can wrap my head around and it doesn't make me feel very good.

Don't misunderstand - I don't judge atheism, as I understand of course not everyone had the upbringing I had, nor do they share life circumstances and other things that shape people's belief systems. I just can't imagine it, for myself. Does this make sense? lol

ZombieNates · July 2012

We always joke whenever anyone gets hiccups that it's a sign from my grandfather. When he was sick with cancer and dying, he would get these terrible hiccups for hours and he'd be SO pissed. Within a few days of his death, everyone in the family got hiccups.

I think prayer is a lot of how you choose to interpret it, like Nicole said. You can look at something as a sign and give it meaning, or it could be a coincidence. I think that as long as it gives you peace and doesn't cause anyone else harm, it can be a positive influence.

arwo · July 2012

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[QUOTE]Arwo tell us about your next race!
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

<div>I was supposed to run a ridiculous 5K tomorrow (in Safeco field, where the Mariners play!) but I am going to have to skip it due to the badness from today.</div>

Megbo2012 · July 2012

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[QUOTE]My faith is something that is of great comfort to me. My personality just isn't condusive to atheism, lol. I very much enjoy my belief in God and that he's watching over me, looking out for me, that I can trust him, all that stuff. I enjoy my beliefs about what happens after I die. I couldn't be a good atheist. The idea that there is just nothing isn't something I can wrap my head around and it doesn't make me feel very good. Don't misunderstand - I don't judge atheism, as I understand of course not everyone had the upbringing I had, nor do they share life circumstances and other things that shape people's belief systems. I just can't imagine it, for myself. Does this make sense? lol
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<div>It makes perfect sense. You are happy, don't fix it if it isn't broken. </div><div>
</div><div>Arwo I'm sorry to hear that :/ Have any questions to ask me to maybe take your mind off it? </div>

arwo · July 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AKA, or something? : It makes perfect sense. You are happy, don't fix it if it isn't broken. Arwo I'm sorry to hear that :/ Have any questions to ask me to maybe take your mind off it?
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

<div>That's quite a cake in your signature! How many people were at your wedding? What kind of cake was it?</div>

Lizzieyounce · July 2012

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[QUOTE]My faith is something that is of great comfort to me. My personality just isn't condusive to atheism, lol. I very much enjoy my belief in God and that he's watching over me, looking out for me, that I can trust him, all that stuff. I enjoy my beliefs about what happens after I die. I couldn't be a good atheist. The idea that there is just nothing isn't something I can wrap my head around and it doesn't make me feel very good. Don't misunderstand - I don't judge atheism, as I understand of course not everyone had the upbringing I had, nor do they share life circumstances and other things that shape people's belief systems. I just can't imagine it, for myself. Does this make sense? lol
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>I totally get this! I can't imagine not being able to talk to God, but I also know that I cannot judge others, because not everyone was raised like I was. Also, I'm a sinner and imperfect, as are all others. Who the heck am I to judge? Religion and faith are personal things. </div><div>
</div><div>I can't imagine that there is nothing waiting for me, but I don't fault or judge people for a different upbringing. To me, this goes against Hope. There is Hope for everyone. Also, I don't think that God is as judgemental as some make Him out to be. </div><div>
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LesPaul · July 2012

I agree with AATB on how prayer feels. I pray myself to sleep too, and it's very calming. I also pray during the day, often for thanksgiving or if I hear of something disturbing or someone who needs help (my pastor calls them 'arrow prayers').

I believe the soothing effect can be the same for a non-believer who meditates.

Question for kd: why were you and BK in my dream last night? I can't remember what we were doing, but you were both there.

arwo · July 2012

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[QUOTE]My faith is something that is of great comfort to me. My personality just isn't condusive to atheism, lol. I very much enjoy my belief in God and that he's watching over me, looking out for me, that I can trust him, all that stuff. I enjoy my beliefs about what happens after I die. I couldn't be a good atheist. <strong>The idea that there is just nothing isn't something I can wrap my head around and it doesn't make me feel very good.</strong> Don't misunderstand - I don't judge atheism, as I understand of course not everyone had the upbringing I had, nor do they share life circumstances and other things that shape people's belief systems. I just can't imagine it, for myself. Does this make sense? lol
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<div>I totally understandd what you mean, but I also don't think there is "nothing." The universe is an INCREDIBLE place, and I actually get comfort from knowing that I exist, as part of something as big and amazing as the universe. </div><div>
</div><div>I don't hold religion against people either; it's more of an "I don't get it." But not in a nasty way! In a completely benevolent way.</div>

ZombieNates · July 2012

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[QUOTE]My faith is something that is of great comfort to me. My personality just isn't condusive to atheism, lol. I very much enjoy my belief in God and that he's watching over me, looking out for me, that I can trust him, all that stuff. I enjoy my beliefs about what happens after I die. I couldn't be a good atheist. The idea that there is just nothing isn't something I can wrap my head around and it doesn't make me feel very good. Don't misunderstand - I don't judge atheism, as I understand of course not everyone had the upbringing I had, nor do they share life circumstances and other things that shape people's belief systems. I just can't imagine it, for myself. Does this make sense? lol
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
That was really well-said.

One time we were having a religion debate and Any said something that really changed the way I look at religious beliefs (for myself). She said that there can be morality and moral behavior outside of religion. And I totally agree with that--I'd never think that someone was unethical or immoral/amoral because they didn't believe in God.

It made me realize, though, that it helps me personally to think that someone is looking out for me and thinking of me. It helps me to have a model to base my life on. That's why religion is good for me, but I can see why it wouldn't be for others.

ErinG93 · July 2012

I don't pray to my grandma, but I talk to her. I ask her to help me make decisions and/or make me feel better. I don't know what happens after death and I'm not religious, but it gives me great comfort hoping she's guiding me. That sound stupid, oh well.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · July 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AKA, or something? : I totally understandd what you mean, but I also don't think there is "nothing." The universe is an INCREDIBLE place, and I actually get comfort from knowing that I exist, as part of something as big and amazing as the universe. I don't hold religion against people either; it's more of an "I don't get it." But not in a nasty way! In a completely benevolent way.
Posted by arwo[/QUOTE]

I feel like we are in a good, respectful place though we are on opposite spectrums on this subject. I like it. :)

Megbo2012 · July 2012

Arwo we had 150 guests. My aunt make big slices

and is extremely talented. We had chocolate peanut butter, lemon with raspberries and white chocolate ganache, and coconut with passion fruit mousse. It was AMAZING.

LetsHikeToday · July 2012

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[QUOTE]I don't pray to my grandma, but I talk to her. I ask her to help me make decisions and/or make me feel better. I don't know what happens after death and I'm not religious, but it gives me great comfort hoping she's guiding me. That sound stupid, oh well.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]
This is exactly what I do.

kd.joseph · July 2012

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[QUOTE]I agree with AATB on how prayer feels. I pray myself to sleep too, and it's very calming. I also pray during the day, often for thanksgiving or if I hear of something disturbing or someone who needs help (my pastor calls them 'arrow prayers'). I believe the soothing effect can be the same for a non-believer who meditates. Question for kd: why were you and BK in my dream last night? I can't remember what we were doing, but you were both there.
Posted by LesPaul[/QUOTE]

Were you have sex dreams about us again?!

AllAboutTheBenjamin · July 2012

Shitballs, Megbo, that is some balls-to-the-walls amazing sounding cake. WANT

ErinG93 · July 2012

I don't even LIKE cake and Megbo's cake sounds good.

arwo · July 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AKA, or something? : I feel like we are in a good, respectful place though we are on opposite spectrums on this subject. I like it. :)
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<div>Whew! I was actually scared I was going to offend you with this, but you (and everyone else, too) have been awesome about answering. </div><div>
</div><div>I actually really like that other people have different beliefs than I do. That sounds like lameass, PC, hippy-dippy bullshit, but I think it's really cool that we can have similar experiences with things and have different understandings of them, if that makes sense. </div><div>
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kd.joseph · July 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AKA, or something? : Whew! I was actually scared I was going to offend you with this, but you (and everyone else, too) have been awesome about answering. I actually really like that other people have different beliefs than I do. That sounds like lameass,<strong> PC, hippy-dippy bullshit</strong>, but I think it's really cool that we can have similar experiences with things and have different understandings of them, if that makes sense.
Posted by arwo[/QUOTE]

But see this is why we love you so much! ;)

Megbo2012 · July 2012

THIS design beat out the cake boss. The cakes are amazing. And the best cake I've ever tasted. So rich and decadent.

arwo · July 2012

FUCKDAMMIT I hate the dresses dropdown menu. Everyfuckingtime.

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