Good morning ladies,
last night we were at the soon to be in laws house and they were asking about the wedding i gave them all the info and set the rehersal dinner guest list and then it happened. the stb mil added her family after is speciffically said these are the only people i want. her coment was well im paying for it so they are coming. i didnt want to insite a fight so i kept my mouth shut but that is the only thing she is paying for and i have no say in it. my parents are footing the bill for this huge wedding i didnt want. i wanted a 200 person tops wedding and now we have almost 400. it has caused alot of tention between me and the mr and i feel that since 75% of the guest list is his family that his parents should chip in for the reception which him and i will be forced to pick up the remaining tab for because i just cant ask my parents for any more money. all i am asking is that they pay half of the $4000 reception because its their large guest list that is making it so expencive. i am beyond frustraded and every time i say something it turns into a fight with my FI. ladies please HELP