My fiance and I were both married before. Neither of us have children with our previous spouses. He does not speak with his ex-wife (they are not on good terms), however, I occasionally speak to my ex-husband as we are still on good terms. I was curious if I should tell my ex-husband that I am getting married. We have mutual friends and I'm not sure what the etiquette for this subject is. Is a text message, facebook, or word of mouth appropriate? We don't talk on a regular basis, it's mostly random conversation about something we think the other would know (almost like phone a friend) and that is it. There's not friendship or small talk or anything. Not sure how to do this... figured I'd ask. Thanks in advance. :-)