Ok so my MOH is under 21 and cannot drink. My mom is kind of a party person now, and really wants to go to the club. I have also been told that I am not allowed to have my party at the bowling ally (that is where we met and I know a lot of people there). We were going to do a pole dancing class at a fitness club in Edmond, but I don't know enough girls that would come. So I am back to the drawing board. I don't drink or party, but I am sure that my mom wants to have a club like party. What is a good alternative to a drinking party? I need a place where under 21 can join, but that is going please my mom.