My fiance and I got engaged in Nov 2010 and are planning a June 2012 wedding. I recently found out that my FMIL wants to throw us an engagement party, but wants to do it in April or May 2012. Is this too close to the wedding? I feel like with a shower and other things going on it may be a bit much, plus engagement parties are typically closer to the engagment than the wedding. Thoughts on this? Thanks!!