Hi! I got married 3 weeks ago. It was great and lovely, and almost everything went well. There were a few people that didn't make it great. My husband's parents were not very supportive. Some things they did:
-Asked the photographer in the middle of our wedding pictures if her and her husband could have their own picture taken... of themselves. During our wedding party pictures.
-Didn't say hi to me when they got to the church, and when I told her she looked nice, she just said, "Thanks."
-FIL made fun of my nephew's hair, (he's two). And told him he had some lunch stuck in his hair and that his mom needed to fix it. (She had put jel in it.)
-Spent the whole 9 months of the engagement telling me that having candles at the table were a burn/fire hazard and told me it was a bad idea, and ended up having candles at her backyard rehersal dinner.
Things were not bad until a week before the wedding. So it kind of confuses me, but ever since the wedding, I have reoccuring dreams of them coming over and complaining about our wedding to me, and I tell them that they are the only reason things went bad, and then I get into a fist fight with his parents... And I win.
The first time I woke up relieved and embarrassed, and it's happened 3 times now! Is that normal?
I'm not a violent person at all! It's so weird for me to think stuff like this, but I do! Has anyone else had this problem? What did you do?
Have a great day!