I'm moh for my bride. I'm a little concerned because the date isn't set and a few other pretty MAJOR details. Am I as bad as what I feel after I talk to her because I'm pointing out she needs a budget and a date, venue and such before we go dress shopping?? I am now known as bridesmaidzilla because I'm concerned and want her to have the day she wants and I do, I honestly get shes excited who wouldn't be? I'm just confused...Help please slap me if I'm as horrible as she is thinking I'm being..