So I didn't really care at first whether I had a shower or not but now I sorta want one....First of all, my parents are paying for just about my entire wedding so to ask my mother to throw a bridal shower for me is in my opinion ludacris. My parents threw my fiance and I an engagement party at their house, and instead of a rehearsal dinner my parents are doing a get-together at their house once again. Now a bridal shower at her house? (because that would be the only way if she'd want to do it cheap.) I don't think so. I do not have a maid of honor because I don't have a sister or close female relative. I have four bridesmaids who are all good friends, but I don't have one super close friend that I wanted to designate as maid of honor so instead I'm doing without one. My bridesmaids are all tight on money, but if it were at someone's house, how expensive could it possibly be? (Although only 2 bridesmaids live semi-close.) Seriously, can't you just pick up deli sandwiches from the super market or something? Heck, even I'd pay for that! I don't even think I'm allowed to mention that I want a bridal shower though, am I? Anyways, I'm pretty sure if I don't say anything I won't get one. My family as a whole is extremely small.