Need some advice here. My fiance and I got engaged in november and wedding is suppose to be beginning of august. A member of my family just got engaged a few weeks ago and they are getting married end of june (roughly 5 weeks before us). I didn't think there was a problem with this until I informed me fiance. She is not taking this well and she wants to get married first. She beleives this is a selfish act by my family member and their fiance (note: they have been dating for several years and have 2 kids). I am standing my ground saying this is not a big deal but she says either they need to change their wedding date to after ours, we move our wedding date up to the beginning of june or we keep our august date but have 2 best men and maids of honor because she feels as though my family member has backstabbed us. I should also say that the weddings will be in 2 different cities. Any suggestions? Am I missing something here? This is tearing apart our relationship.