I don't know what to do!

bucky2012 · February 2012

You look gorgeous in that dress! I agree that friends/family will know the backstory and you should still wear it. And I really find it hard to believe she didnt remember your dress, it obviously made a big impression on her if she bought the same one. Definately would keep her out of the loop on any future wedding planning.

lpowers1118 · February 2012

I say keep the dress (unchanged), you look beautiful in it. Also, keep your lips tight about your wedding from here on out. She clearly is letting you plan your wedding and hers once she finds out about all of your details.
Also, to anyone who said to call up the A and U in FL and do a phone invite asap, great idea! Get on that now.

***WARNING: A BITCH BRIDAL MINI RANT IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN***
Don't get too down on yourself for being pissed off, I would be too! If things like this keep happening, just sink to her level and start telling her fake details of your wedding that would make a wedding a awful (ex: cash bar). Maybe she will take the bait and run with it. I know this seems extreme but I've followed your cousin drama for a bit now and she's really starting to piss me off!

jujub423 · February 2012

Dot-she's not a BM in my wedding. We aren't super close anymore, but we hung out a lot when we were younger, along with her brother and my sisters. Her mother was my mom's little sister, and they were both stay at home moms, so they were over a lot. Then my aunt passed away from a heart attack when my cousin was only 6 or 7 (we're about 3 years apart), and then my cousins dad passed away from cancer when she was...13? 14? So her and her brother moved in with a paternal aunt, and we didn't see eachother nearly as much.

You all have made me feel SO much better about the whole situation, and I really appreciate it. However, I'll feel 100% better once I hear she was able to cancel her order and is getting another dress!

brandichamberlain · February 2012

OP, I love the dress!

XxmcuhlovejennxX · February 2012

this didnt happen to me but my FI's brothers FI got enghaged 6 months after we did, felt kinda silly, its been 3 years we deicided to start planning our wedding, and lo and behold they wanted to start planning too... two months after ours.

jujub423 · February 2012

mcuhlove, be thankful because at least their wedding is after yours!

edandy · February 2014

In the end I bet it won't matter as much. Everyone will see that you had all your things set first. Don't let her get to you because that is how she will win! Have a happier, more fun wedding and nobody will remember the dress part.

yogablossom · February 2014

Your dress is gorgeous and looks beautiful on you!! I say wear it!! As long as you and your fiance are happy on your day, no one is going to notice that it's the same dress--they will all be looking at YOU and how radiantly happy you'll be!

I don't know what to do!

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