I really hate posting on these things because I am never good with what to say. But I am at a loss right now and really need some help.
About a year ago I met and started hanging out with a wife of a co worker at my then boyfriends job. We hit it off good. We liked the same music, Stores ect... Well when the time came around and my boyfriend asked me to marry him I asked her to be in the wedding... (WORST MISTAKE EVER MADE!) As time is passing and getting closer to our date she has become really pushy, demanding and I can't take it anymore. She blind sided me and took me to David's to look at dresses. I said. "Ok I'll look but I am not gonna buy anything till almost time for the wedding" The lady at David's was real nice. She comes up to me and we were chit chatting about wedding stuff the she ask me. "So what type of dresses would you like for your big day." Before I could even get the words out of my mouth miss boss speaks for me, "She doesnt want anything fancy. BRIGHT white, No beads..." Im like Woah!!! Wait a moment.... She asked me. I was so shocked I couldn't even speak.... Before this took place she gets out all these dresses that she wants me to try on. (Ones just like she said she had always dreamed of with bright red things on them so not me) I nicely said no not for me... She has started telling her husband she feels like shes "Left out" Of the wedding planning and for him to say something to my fiance at work.. That really bugs me too because if you have something to say to me please say it to me not thru a 3rd party. She has been facebook stalking everything I post and posting all these things that I "Need" to go to. And saying "You need to try on many dresses even if you think they are ugly." I am very much a if i dont like it on the rack im not gonna like it on myself person... I have told her this over and over. She's making comments about our sofa, The place my fiance used to live, It's gotten really bad. I wanna un ask her to be in our wedding because at this point i dont even wanna be around her. I feel like such a bridezilla when it comes down to this. But she's really pushed my buttons. I am making ribbon roses for our flowers. I had posted last night that I finally decided on a color she said "Let me know if you need help." I replied with "Thanks but I can handle it." and that started her up all over again. What do i do??!?!?! Ugh!!! (besides clearly delete her from facebook) is it fair for me to un invite someone from being in the wedding? This is my first wedding and I don't know what to do.