Anyone else have drama mamas out there? In this case, it's not my mama - it's FI's!
She's great, I've known her for many more years than I've known FI - I do not mean to be bashing her right now, but I think I've been quite forgiving with her drama thus far but I'm about to explode.
It just seems as though she has been trying to manipulate us into doing certain things and that makes me squirm. She really loves drama (no matter how many times she says she can't stand drama), like I said, I've known her for a VERY long time and worked with her for 3 years and trust me, she L-O-V-E-S the drama. Most times, she is the source of it. It's getting ridiculous though.
She has done everything from ask a cousin of FI to play with his "jazz" band during our cocktail hour - in front of us, without talking to us about it - then I was the one who had to look like a bi*** and tell him we had already arranged for someone to play during our cocktail hour and that this was just some sort of miscommunication, to telling FI's aunt that she can sit with us at the head table when our head table was already decided and it really makes no sense at all to have her there, to making us feeling terrible for not inviting some of HER coworkers whom we've NEVER heard of/met....and we're paying for this wedding ourselves, so really...
It just doesn't stop. She cries about things she does herself. She'll do/say something inappropriate and then call us the next day and cry because she feels bad. She's an emotional rollercoaster and I love her, but honestly I can't stand the way she's handling herself lately.
UGH!!!
just needed to vent. it's cookie time.
