So, I really had hoped this "situation" would have resolved itself before we needed to decide on invites. We have these friends who have been on-again then off-again for over 2 years. They are off-again at the moment (they say permanently, but I'll believe it later). I was sort of hoping that they would be on-again when it was time for invites. I really don't want to decide between these two people. I'm closer to her, but FI is closer to him and we both like them both.
They are getting along ok at the moment, but 6-8 weeks before the wedding is a long time for these two, and who knows where they will be by then. I'm inclined to invite them both, but let each know that both are invited. Is there any problem with doing that? I'm also a little afraid to invite them both because they can be (and they aren't always) drama-central. So I could also see just inviting one so there is no confrontation or drama, I'd rather have one than neither.
I don't know what to do, what would you do? Thanks.