I should so happy for my cousin. I WAS so happy for her. After all, we are and have always been very close. We have always been like sisters to each other. She will stand up for me as MOH on my wedding day (spring 2011). When her boyfriend of 4 years proposed to her a few days ago, it wasn't a surprise that she asked me to be her MOH. I was very excited until she told me the date she was thinking of. For some reason she feels that it is okay to plan her wedding for TWO WEEKS after mine. It is really hard to express my frustration. my fiance helped me form my feelings into an analogy. I feel like I just built my dream house on a vast open country side, and my dear cousin decided to build her dream house four feet from mine. She could have built her house ANYWHERE...why so close to mine... I have been planning my wedding for so long. My fiance and i have been together for 8 years, and i feel that we deserve a wedding that is all our own. I hate more than anything to sound selfish....but I don't want to share my wedding. I am really having a hard time sorting out my feelings. I don't feel that I could ever share my feelings with my cousin, or anyone else for that matter. Am I supposed to stand up for her with a smile on my face but an angry heart? Any advice???