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Stackeye210 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:cc2da693-f746-4a65-9a63-e52ab08295dc">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Lala, YGPM. Stacks, I'm beyond actually measuring my food, but I know when I'm at that - one 'more bite, and it will be ugly" point. Occasionally I've eaten it, and paid for it. But, the loss and health and activity gain totally make it worth it. Usually 3/4 of any restaurant meal goes home.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

Exactly. Which to me does not in the LEAST BIT equal the easy way out in any way shape or form! You are constantly reminded of it with everything you do because I'm sure you know that if you don't constantly think about it you could gain the weight back. Am I close?

I know a married couple that got gastric bypass together. They both looked amazing. The husband continued to eat small portions and exercise and the woman slowly began eating more and more food until she could eat regular portions again. She is heavier then when she started. Their marriage has suffered because of it as well. It's like a guilt/jealousy thing they both wrestle with.

NuggetBrain · October 2010

You coworker needs to have his junk lit on fire.

Someone I know had gastric bypass (old co-worker) and she pretty much threw up every day for like, 4 months straight because she couldn't get the right amount of food before going overboard. That doesn't sound easy to me. I'm just saying.

JenGin74 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:c2d5f2af-a405-4985-a680-f519f3495a83">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Cfas, your coworker is an ass. That is just...wow. JenGin, I think there's the stigma of "we couldn't do it."<strong> Like you're somehow defective people if you need help to get pregnant</strong>. I've definitely heard that before.
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I already have enough internal anguish about this. I sure as hell don't need someone else judging me for being broken.

MacFreitas7 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:c2047284-5f6a-4785-bebd-3e75d5f7733b">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]mac, my first impression of you was in the thread earlier this week. what you said previously is of no consequence to me.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

That's fine and we will be done with it now.

salt78 · October 2010

PS You guys are so mean. I can't believe you have a whole thread for flaming each other.*

*That was my impression of one of the July '11 girls. BTW I want the 5 minutes of my life back that I wasted reading that thread over there.

emilyinchile · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:e66c919d-bf1d-48d4-a37d-1f0163be8f19">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]MacFreitas is going to need a new shovel soon. The one she's been digging with must be about all worn out by now.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Love you. Although according to MacF we're done with this topic now.

mica178 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:89baa45b-a8ff-49d7-b878-c0f323870d01">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I flame your coworker. As in, I kind of want to light your coworker on fire. This is about way more than resident hall issues. He can go straight to hell with my donut stealing lady. Guys? I've had a lot of sugar today.
Posted by mandapanda78[/QUOTE]

I flame you for making me shriek with laughter at work. :) Evil donut stealing lady. I'm mad at her for you, would be happy to douse her with lighter fluid. And and also that coworker. And the original person who posted that video.

Wrkn925 · October 2010

No one should ask Gastric bypass lady how she lost weight.
The LAST time I asked someone how they lost weight, she told me she had health issues and had to have part of her colon removed. I deserved to feel as shitty as I did. It was none of my business and rude to ask.
If Gastric Bypass lady doesn't want to advertise on Facebook that she had surgery, it's her business.
Maybe there were people on there that just didn't need to know.

I've said more than once on here that I have implants. That is because none of you know me. If someone at work would have noticed the difference, I would have told them it was a push up bra.
I'm a liar, lair, pants on fire.

It's none ya business. And thanks, now I have Salt-N-Pepa stuck in my head.

But, this is a flame thread, so I defend your right to flame her. I just don't think you should feel so strong about it, and feel like she is affecting other obese people. There's enough positive stories out there for those curious about GB.

tortis · October 2010

Looks like Mac isnt going argue this anymore, but I'm adding my two cents anyway.

A person's weight, whether they are over- or underweight, is a health concern. For you to judge someone for making a decision pertaining to their individual health and well being and how they choose to tell others, or NOT tell others about that decision is incredible to me.

xyrius · October 2010

maybe i should go over to july 11 and comment since i technically wouldn't be "stalking" since that's supposed to be my board

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:9b2ec0ac-e1f4-47cc-ae27-41b242aef1f6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Love you. Although according to MacF we're done with this topic now.
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh we are? Well if she says so...I guess it's on to Twilight next?</div><div>
</div><div>PS. LOVE YEW!!!! <3</div>

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:953ea996-ee53-449d-85d0-a3cca6ac1fe7">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]maybe i should go over to july 11 and comment since i technically wouldn't be "stalking" since that's supposed to be my board
Posted by xyrius[/QUOTE]

<div>Um, but are you a regular? Because if not I don't think you have any business posting there. At least that's what that one girl seems to think.</div>

MacFreitas7 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:2a9f4ba6-e6db-47a2-82c9-801df7c11973">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]So, you think an extra hour at the gym will otherwise prevent people from needing gastric bypass? You continue to judge people who elect to get weight loss surgery. Not everyone can magically lose 200 pounds on a treadmill.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

No, absolutely not... I've given my reasons for why I judge her.
I was trying to get across the point that they aren't the same and you can't compare them.
Going to a gym helps.
But with the gastric bypass comes hard work - people who get these surgeries have to continue to work at it every single day of their lives. It's not a one and done surgery. Going to the gym to maintain a healthy lifestyle and weight loss and eating healthy are vital in the success of the surgery <-- all of which my FSSIL is not doing and lying about to others -

what a waste.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:953ea996-ee53-449d-85d0-a3cca6ac1fe7">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]maybe i should go over to july 11 and comment since i technically wouldn't be "stalking" since that's supposed to be my board
Posted by xyrius[/QUOTE]

They all just started laughing at each other on page 2 of that thread. I don't get it. I think they're kind of special and I don't blame you for not wanting to hang out with them. Stick with us instead.

Stackeye210 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:ced999da-0296-4cf5-927f-676696b5c04e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No, absolutely not... I've given my reasons for why I judge her. I was trying to get across the point that they aren't the same and you can't compare them. Going to a gym helps. But with the gastric bypass comes hard work - people who get these surgeries have to continue to work at it every single day of their lives. It's not a one and done surgery. Going to the gym to maintain a healthy lifestyle and weight loss and eating healthy are vital in the success of the surgery <-- all of which my FSSIL is not doing and lying about to others - what a waste.
Posted by MacFreitas7[/QUOTE]

Well then it's her business to explain to people why she gains the weight back.

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:b6f8b4ab-bd77-4326-a1dd-338c45c5b274">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : They all just started laughing at each other on page 2 of that thread. I don't get it. I think they're kind of special and I don't blame you for not wanting to hang out with them. Stick with us instead.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

<div>I get the feeling that all of them are very new to the concept of sarcasm.</div>

xyrius · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:cab3a002-f12b-49a6-b09f-7b75ba152c2d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Um, but are you a regular? Because if not I don't think you have any business posting there. At least that's what that one girl seems to think.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

nope definitely not a regular. i'm going to go poke my nose in anyways.

Stackeye210 · October 2010

Amysmomma can't go anywhere.........I've talked sh*t about her to all the other boards so I could keep her here for myself.

laladypoet · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:ced999da-0296-4cf5-927f-676696b5c04e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No, absolutely not... I've given my reasons for why I judge her. I was trying to get across the point that they aren't the same and you can't compare them. Going to a gym helps. But with the gastric bypass comes hard work - people who get these surgeries have to continue to work at it every single day of their lives. It's not a one and done surgery. Going to the gym to maintain a healthy lifestyle and weight loss and eating healthy are vital in the success of the surgery <-- all of which my FSSIL is not doing and lying about to others - what a waste.
Posted by MacFreitas7[/QUOTE]

*chokes on bullshiit*

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:f34dc8e1-7a94-4700-bb71-52bfe15ff8bb">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : nope definitely not a regular. i'm going to go poke my nose in anyways.
Posted by xyrius[/QUOTE]

<div>Okay, but be warned. You may be the target of poorly delivered sarcasm. </div>

Rosie109 · October 2010

I STARTED THIS MESS I WILL SAY WHEN WE ARE DONE.

We are NOT done.

So there.

btrflykate1230 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:431b132c-4b4a-4a7f-bfde-64c053bac835">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I get the feeling that all of them are very new to the concept of sarcasm.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

*Blinks*

There are people who don't understand sarcasm? Please keep me far far away from them.

(not a sarcastic comment, for those of you who don't understand sarcasm)

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:5549291a-804f-4530-b823-20423faeabce">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : *chokes on bullshiit*
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

<div>::Heimlich maneuver::</div>

squirrly · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:ced999da-0296-4cf5-927f-676696b5c04e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No, absolutely not... I've given my reasons for why I judge her. I was trying to get across the point that they aren't the same and you can't compare them. Going to a gym helps. But with the gastric bypass comes hard work - people who get these surgeries have to continue to work at it every single day of their lives. It's not a one and done surgery. Going to the gym to maintain a healthy lifestyle and weight loss and eating healthy are vital in the success of the surgery <-- all of which my FSSIL is not doing and lying about to others - what a waste.
Posted by MacFreitas7[/QUOTE]

So, perhaps you should have flamed her for not doing what she should to get the best results from a medical procedure. The way you worded it came across really, really poorly, and a lot of your defensive arguments today have as well.

I flame the girl who is adamant about her pre-cana mentors not being invited to her reception.

And, I'm planning to play tonight.

laladypoet · October 2010

salt saved my life. how you like me now, biitches??

MacFreitas7 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:452723ea-93c6-4c3d-8fe0-0f062052d5d1">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : methinks she's actually pissed that her FSSIL looks good and is getting attention. so she's stomping her feet and whining that it's not faaa-aair. but I do love a good backpedal. don't stop.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

HA!!!!

if I choked on this hilarity, no one would save me... so I'll just laugh alone here at my desk (without choking on my apple**)

EDITED for less stupidity, but it didn't help - it still sounds pretty dumb.

laladypoet · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:a13fdc9a-e36b-4455-9035-bf4f1dabf7e3">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : HA!!!! if I <strong>chocked </strong>on this hilarity, no one would save me... so I'll just laugh alone here at my desk.
Posted by MacFreitas7[/QUOTE]

I'm out.

Rosie109 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:c1dab7d3-46f3-4852-bbb2-2fdf48ae09ff">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : salt once said she was all about the washingtons, and shiit got real.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

is that like the benjamins?

salt78 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:a13fdc9a-e36b-4455-9035-bf4f1dabf7e3">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : HA!!!! if I chocked on this hilarity, no one would save me... so I'll just laugh alone here at my desk.
Posted by MacFreitas7[/QUOTE]

<div>This makes like no sense.</div>

MacFreitas7 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-46?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3253665f-507b-4538-ac70-63916598df54Post:31b84a94-e823-45a2-a1f6-39addb83a0c8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm out.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

ah!
damnit. I HATE that I just spelled that wrong.

:(
choked*.

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