I got a text message (YES A TEXT!) from my friend telling me that she has decided to only have 3 bridesmaids instead of 4 and I am out of the wedding party. I'm very hurt by this since it is my boyfriend's brothers wedding and my boyfriend is the best man. This woman also asked me to be a part of her wedding party after she asked the other three, because she wanted to "make sure my boyfirend intended on marrying me someday", so it's not like she asked me on a whim, and I certainly never pressured her or made her feel obligated to make me a bridesmaid!