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HELP!!-shower wording
I am planning on having a guys and girls shower. We're calling it a 'gadget and gift card' shower.
I have been to a 'tools and drool' shower where the guy received tools and the girl lingerie, and another shower where everyone left money on a tree to help the couple pay for their honeymoon...so I know my idea isn't that far out there.
Instead of just getting lingerie I wanted my fiancee and I to get the opportunity to get other clothing essentials to wear for the honeymoon...undies, bra, maybe some cute tops, bathing suit etc...that's where the 'gift card' idea came in.
How do I word the invite so that people understand not to get gift cards at Bed, Bath and Beyond, where we are registered also...mall gift card?
Thanks!!
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Re: HELP!!-shower wording
[QUOTE]I am planning on having a guys and girls shower. We're calling it a 'gadget and gift card' shower. I have been to a 'tools and drool' shower where the guy received tools and the girl lingerie, and another shower where everyone left money on a tree to help the couple pay for their honeymoon...so I know my idea isn't that far out there. Instead of just getting lingerie I wanted my fiancee and I to get the opportunity to get other clothing essentials to wear for the honeymoon...undies, bra, maybe some cute tops, bathing suit etc...that's where the 'gift card' idea came in. How do I word the invite so that people understand not to get gift cards at Bed, Bath and Beyond, where we are registered also...mall gift card? Thanks!!
Posted by lilbitty1215[/QUOTE]
No no no no NO.
You don't throw your own shower and you most certainly do not blatantly ask for gifts yourself.
[QUOTE]I'm not throwing my own shower...my bridesmaids are...I'm just trying to help them out with wording because they're not sure how to word it either!
Posted by lilbitty1215[/QUOTE]
<div>Maybe because there is no good way to word a bad idea. </div>
[QUOTE]I am planning on having a guys and girls shower. We're calling it a 'gadget and gift card' shower. I have been to a 'tools and drool' shower where the guy received tools and the girl lingerie, and another shower where everyone left money on a tree to help the couple pay for their honeymoon...so I know my idea isn't that far out there. Instead of just getting lingerie<strong> I wanted my fiancee and I to get the opportunity to get other clothing essentials to wear for the honeymoon...undies, bra, maybe some cute tops, bathing suit etc...that's where the 'gift card' idea came in. </strong>How do I word the invite so that people understand not to get gift cards at Bed, Bath and Beyond, where we are registered also...mall gift card? Thanks!!
Posted by lilbitty1215[/QUOTE]
This idea makes me feel uncomfortable and I hate it.
Not sure what else to say.
[QUOTE]is there another way to word the gadget party...when i hear that it sounds dirty to me.. :)
Posted by lilbitty1215[/QUOTE]
What kind of "gadgets" do you mean?
I don't really think you have to call it anything but a wedding shower or bridal shower. In the invitation, your BMs can write something like, "Please bring Lilbitty a gadget to stock her kitchen!" (But maybe worded cuter or something, I'm not good at that stuff.)