I got married really young and the road to happiness didnt turn out as planned. now divorced for 3 years..i found another guy that i've been dating for 2 years and we've been talking marriage. My parents paid over 30,000 for my first wedding and even though it was gorgeous i'm not wanting to pay that kind of cash again. I also feel wierd inviting family to come to another wedding of mine. For those of you planning a 2nd or been through it, How much did you spend? was family receptive to the 2nd wedding? I hate asking people to buy me gifts when they already did...