Sorry guys this is mostly a venting session for me. I feel like i dont even have a bridal party and its driving me crazy! I have to litterally do everything for my bridal party and it sucks because i know if i dont do it they sure wont either. Im having to order and ship dresses, make all the alterations apps ( i dont even know what kind of alterations are needed because none of the bridesmaids have the time to get fitted) im having to pick up dresses, shoes, bouquets, book salon apps,set up groomsmen tux apps, my bridesmaids told me that i needed to decide on thier hairstyles (i could honestly care less if they get thier hair done) all they seem to care about at this point is the bach partys! They want me to book limos and all this other stuff and its just too much for me. Dont i have enough to worry about with just the basics? how do i tell them that this is stuff that THEY should have to worry about? im barely keeping up with my vendors and the stuff that i should have to worry about without babysitting my wedding party too. Im not having a bach party by the way. theres just too much for me to do to go blowing my savings and hard earned money at bars (ive told them that bars were not my thing and that i was happy to do something else, but thats the only thing they are willing to do) they dont even care about my opionions on the subject and i get ignored everytime i suggest a spa day or shopping trip instead. So i might be called a bridezilla and get dirty looks from them when i tell them that its not happening, but the way i see it is why should i host a night on the town for them when i cant even get them to go pick up thier own dresses?