March 2012 Weddings

XP: Reception - Veil In or Out?

Hi Ladies,

With just over 3 months to go, I've been thinking a lot about my w-day hairstyle.  My veil is a single layer, finger-tip length, with lace around the edge that matches my dress exactly.  It was about $100 so I feel weird about only wearing it for a 20 minute ceremony and a few pictures...I've heard that it is "traditional" to keep it on until the first dance but I don't think we are going to do our first dance until after dinner, toasts, and cake...

Here is a picture of my dress with the veil:



Would it be weird to just keep my veil on the whole reception?  What have y'all done/seen?

Thanks for the opinions :)
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Re: XP: Reception - Veil In or Out?

  • elidellioelidellio member
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    edited December 2011
    I haven't been to a lot of weddings so I'm not sure what's considered normal but I think you should do whatever you want. If you prefer to wear it the whole time and are comfortable in it then I say go for it! I plan to take mine off before the reception but only because I think it would annoy me otherwise.
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  • I've seen a lot of weddings recently where the bride keeps the veil on through everything.  When you pay that much money for it, why not?  For my first wedding I kept mine on the whole time and it was a chapel length veil!  
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  • Honestly, I don't think I've ever seen a bride keep the veil on for the reception. However, it is your wedding, so do whatever you want!! :)
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  • My FSIL totally kept hers on the whole ceremony and reception. It was a little bit shorter, but it wasn't wierd. For me, I get uncomfortable with hats/headbands/clips and stuff like that, so I know I wont be able to WAIT to get the veil off.

    I see what you mean about paying as much as you did for it and wanting to keep it on. It is the one day where you can wear a bridal veil and it NOT be wierd, know what I mean? :)
  • The last wedding I went to the bride kept her veil on the whole time. I plan on taking mine off at the reception.
  • ill be taking mine off after the first dance! i dont think it wil be comfortable dancing all night with it in but keep in in unless it bothers you!

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  • I plan on keeping mine on through the reception, I just love mine it's so pretty! However, I am having a cute little flower hair clip made, that'll match the flowers on my dress, so if I decided to take out the veil, I'll have something else to put in my hair.

    I say do whatever you like! If you love your veil, you rock it all night long! Then if it bothers you, take it out :) It's your day, you get to do whatever you want
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  • I've been to weddings were I've seen it both ways some brides keep it on other brides take the veil off. Do whatever makes you comfortable. I won't even be wearing one for the ceremony bc I was uncomfortable with it I just couldn't find one I liked.
  • My only suggestion would be to not wear it only because you paid a lot for it.  This is the thought process I would go through....

    1) As many other PPs said... will it be comfortable?
    2) Do you LOVE the way it looks? and/or do you want to somehow change up your look at all?
    3) Try to search photographers' websites/ blogs and see if any brides kept their veil on the whole night.  If so, did you like the way it looked?

    I'd say depending on your responses to these questions, you should have a good inkling of what you want to do! :)

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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_march-2012-weddings_xp-reception-veil-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:955e4823-0be1-44ef-9ee7-99a63794e103Discussion:376deb12-864c-4dad-bb58-23cedf8fa340Post:001afa1b-8afd-49d2-8404-bdbbec486df8">Re: XP: Reception - Veil In or Out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Honestly, I don't think I've ever seen a bride keep the veil on for the reception. However, it is your wedding , so do whatever you want!! :)
    Posted by brittandjp[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Same. I know some think it can have the tendency to just be annoying when dancing and walking around to visit tables. Etc. I'm taking mine out and putting in a separate head piece for the reception. I just don't want to deal with it if it gets snagged on something or whatever. But that's just my opinion, if you wanna keep it on, do it!

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  • I think it is mainly a personal choice :)
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