Yes, I know I'm not even inquiring about my own bachelorette but let's get one thing straight - I've never and still do not like my fiance's brother.
He finally asked his bro to be his best man and my fiance was telling me how his brother had grand ideas to go to Vegas and even Thailand and get prostitutes and escorts involved.
I only had to hear Thailand, prostitutes and escorts and that was enough.
My fiance is the younger brother and the thought of adultery sickens him to his stomach (and I quote!) but the problem is, he rarely ever speaks up to his brother unless its a do or die situation (sorry had to use a metaphor there to give you an idea what I'm dealing with).
Anyway. I really don't want to be THAT fiancee... you know, the one who's all, setting the rules and that sort of thing. ANd I don't even know what's normal and acceptable - he says he's definitely be getting breasts in his face ... I don't know what to make of it, I laughed and I know it'll probably happen but would other brides be absolutely livid about this?
And given that his bro is an absolute d-bag and has no respect for women (including my own wishes during me and my fiance's four year courtship), what should I do? Should I say something? Should I subtly imply certain things?
I also don't want anyone who ISN"T part of the wedding part and guest list to take part in his bachelor party. Is that proper etiquette or is that borderlining control freak? psycho bride?
Someone please help.