It seems like invites reached a lot of destinations today and I've heard lots of "oh, how beautiful!" sentiments (my amazing sister handmade my invites and they are beyond gorgeous).
Unfortunately, we've already had a "well, why isn't our daughter's name on the invite? Does that mean she isn't invited? I don't think we can go if she can't come along..."
FMIL emailed me that her friend was "confused" about daughter's name not being on the invite. Well, she wasn't on there because we aren't inviting kids.
IWe decided 6 months ago that we weren't inviting kids and have already told most of our close friends that their children weren't invited. Including my best friend of twenty years whose children call me Aunt.
We feel like although letting this child come isn't the end of the world and will keep peace for his mom with her friend, it makes things really hard for all of my friend who I've already told no.
I'm sure we'll figure it out, just needed to vent. if you have any advice, I would appreciate it.
When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. ~Nora Ephron, When Harry Met Sally