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    NuggetBrainNuggetBrain member
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    Bless your heart.
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    shellydiane820shellydiane820 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_flame-please-reach-300?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:cbbacea1-c637-4f05-a5a1-b27fa06214fdPost:f377f319-0af0-4716-bd60-137f0a21468c">Re: Flame On! Please reach 300!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flame On! Please reach 300! : Ah - I see, so you are asking "why are you here if you don't like it here?" <strong>I do get good advice from the discussion boards on this site, so I stay.  But I do agree that there is a lot of hostility and petty rudeness with many posts.  I am just agreeing with OP.  I usually will stay out of these cat fights (except this, of course, lol) and not post a response when I see it has become one. I'm </strong>just sharing that I have a common observation with OP, but I still see more positives on here than the negatives so that is why I'm still here.
    Posted by M&R7111[/QUOTE]

    I think that's a copout.  I don't look at these as "cat fights" I see them as discussions.  Its okay to disagree and speak your mind.  I think just leaving a thread like that is lame.  If I notice someone doing that, I'm disappointed.

    If you were having a debate with someone in real life and you think it was getting too heated, do you just turn around and walk away? 
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    deepcovejackiedeepcovejackie
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    Wow OP, I think maybe it`s time for you to have a little break.  Take a walk, have a nap, have a time out, but in any case turn off the computer.  You`re getting a little bent out of shape.
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    loritajeanloritajean member
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    qtxvixen - I was on your side until I saw this. I agree that some of these girls are way outta line, but don't stoop to their level!! Let it go, dude.

    How did you get called out, but the other girls didn't (as far as I know)? I saw some pretty nasty language from quite a few people on there.

    Maybe I just need to stick to the DIY page from now on. Apparently "chit chat" is too catty for this girl.
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    NuggetBrainNuggetBrain member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_flame-please-reach-300?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:cbbacea1-c637-4f05-a5a1-b27fa06214fdPost:5ae21471-f021-402b-ae0c-57dba87e7cc5">Re: Flame On! Please reach 300!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Op needs a nap and a ham sandwich.  But honestly aren't we all just feeding the drama by replying? Her title even shows that she WANTS everyone to respond.
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    Great.  Now I want a ham sandwich.
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    shellydiane820shellydiane820 member
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    I was waiting for M&R to respond.  Maybe it got too "catty" for her.  I have to leave for home now.
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    tidetraveltidetravel member
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    [QUOTE]qtxvixen - I was on your side until I saw this. I agree that some of these girls are way outta line, but don't stoop to their level!! Let it go, dude. How did you get called out, but the other girls didn't (as far as I know)? I saw some pretty nasty language from quite a few people on there. Maybe I just need to stick to the DIY page from now on. Apparently "chit chat" is too catty for this girl.
    Posted by loritajean[/QUOTE]
    She and Opal were the only people actually calling other posters names: idiot, stupid and bitch are three off the top of my head.
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    This is pathetic.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flame On! Please reach 300! : She and Opal were the only people actually calling other posters names: idiot, stupid and bitch are three off the top of my head.
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]



    How about cew and her "gigantic bag of ass" comment? Or laurenclaire and her "douche" barb? I wonder if they were reprimanded. Probably not.
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    megk8ozmegk8oz member
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    I'm not Bill Murray ... and today is not February 2nd. So could somebody please tell me what the hell is going on here, and how do I skip to the part where I get play kick-ass piano for Andie MacDowell?

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    M&R7111M&R7111
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    [QUOTE]I was waiting for M&R to respond.  Maybe it got too "catty" for her.  I have to leave for home now.
    Posted by shellydiane820[/QUOTE]

    Well, real life called, I had to run out and get some potatoes for dinner, which means I had to leave my computer (gasp!)

    No, I understand that when there is a debate people disagree.  I'm talking about the outright rude responses some girls give others.  I've seen it happen, to me even.  Also, I think that many people jump to conclusions too soon.  I know I, or rather my tone, have been misunderstood  on here.  But these are typed discussions, so people's tones and attitudes are going to be misread.

    Take for instance my delay to respond - no, you were not to "catty" for me, i needed potatoes.
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    loritajeanloritajean member
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    TideTravel - Sorry to repost, I mentioned it on another thread but I think this is more recent.

    I saw other posters use the words "ridiculous douche", "gigantic bag of crap", "bitch", "bitchy", "bitches", "bitching", "wipe her ass", "f*ck"... and I don't even feel like scanning for more. (All of these were from frequent posters.)

    I can't defend vixen anymore, but I think quite a few people stepped over the line.
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    [QUOTE]TideTravel - Sorry to repost, I mentioned it on another thread but I think this is more recent. I saw other posters use the words "ridiculous douche", "gigantic bag of crap", "bitch", "bitchy", "bitches", "bitching", "wipe her ass", "f*ck"... and I don't even feel like scanning for more. (All of these were from frequent posters.) I can't defend vixen anymore, but I think quite a few people stepped over the line.
    Posted by loritajean[/QUOTE]

    Do you know for a fact they didn't get messages?

    honestly, I don't think its so much of the language but rather starting up things just to create drama.

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    tidetraveltidetravel member
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    Lorita - language isn't the issue - we're all adults.  I'm sure people can handle curse words.  It's directed insults that are a problem.  There's a difference between saying someone is bitchy and calling someone a bitch.

    As for cew's comment - she probably did get reprimanded.  Cew, however, is a regular and checks her PM often, therefore didn't need a reminder to check them
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    nda_roxybabe - I did mention in my first comment that I wasn't sure if they had received messages or not. I was just trying to show TideTravel that they weren't the only ones who were name calling.

    Again, I'm not trying to defend anyone anymore, and I agree with you that vixen is creating way too much unnecessary drama. but to be honest I have seen experienced posters bully newbies to the point of desperation on this board on more than one occasion.

    And I know this is completely unrelated, but I really like the dress and shoes you're wearing in your signature pic :)
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    Thank you :)

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    loritajeanloritajean member
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    TideTravel - I agree with you, but most of those words I mentioned were used as a direct insult, except for possibly one or two of the "bitchys". If they did get a PM, that's great, I never said they didn't. I just mean vixen wasn't the only one, so let's not place ALL blame on her... even if she is off her rocker.
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    JoyTate1JoyTate1 member
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    You know, I was in a bad mood until I saw this.  Now, I am just so happy no one I know is this BSC.

    I think you should be added to the list of reasons you can dump a BM.  If she sleeps with your FI, attacks you, or is qtxvixen-in which case dump her, move and leave no forwarding address.
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    tidetraveltidetravel member
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    Lorita - I love your headpiece.  Do you have a picture of it from the front?
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    SarahPLizSarahPLiz member
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    Well, Heels, I am convinced that Shebalyun is meant to be a bad word, since she is calling us that. If we could figure out what it is, you might have grounds to ban her.
    All I get when I google is a Russian Composer named Shebalin. OP must have misspelled her own made up insult word.
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    M&R7111M&R7111
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    [QUOTE]nda_roxybabe - I did mention in my first comment that I wasn't sure if they had received messages or not. I was just trying to show TideTravel that they weren't the only ones who were name calling. Again, I'm not trying to defend anyone anymore, and I agree with you that vixen is creating way too much unnecessary drama. but to be honest<strong> I have seen experienced posters bully newbies to the point of desperation on this board on more than one occasion</strong>. And I know this is completely unrelated, but I really like the dress and shoes you're wearing in your signature pic :)
    Posted by loritajean[/QUOTE]

    Right - I've seen it too, and that's what I've been trying to say.  It happens, I don't like it, but oh well. Why I'm being argued with right now is beyond me. Apparently I'm not the only one with this observation.  However, I wouldn't make such a big deal the way vixen is, though.
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    Why do people think that a big long rant about how mean and catty people are isn't itself a mean and catty thing to do?
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    [QUOTE]Well, Heels, I am convinced that Shebalyun is meant to be a bad word, since she is calling us that. If we could figure out what it is, you might have grounds to ban her. All I get when I google is a Russian Composer named Shebalin. OP must have misspelled her own made up insult word.
    Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

    I'm pretty sure her blaming us for there being gay men in the world is reason enough for bannation.

    Also, since Google failed me, I asked DH, since he knows weirdo LARP/D&D insults, and to his knowledge no such word exists.

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    SarahPLizSarahPLiz member
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    I tried some misspellings and came up with Sheba Lyon, and some Russian ice dancers. Maybe this is only a word in her own little world.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flame On! Please reach 300! : I'm pretty sure her blaming us for there being gay men in the world is reason enough for bannation. Also, since Google failed me, I asked DH, since he knows weirdo LARP/D&D insults, and to his knowledge no such word exists.
    Posted by megk8oz[/QUOTE]
    Well, in Ravenblack Roleplay, there are Shebalin.  Apparently, we are thieving, rogue vampires, which I think I can live with:

    <em><font size="2">There are those who walk Inside The City who think they are gods. Then there are those who walk above the City and Rule the gods themselves. We are thought of as the Lowest of the City's vampires. Until we walk behind them and reveal to them who we really are. We are the Best at what we do, and we will Make damn sure that Everybody Dead and Alive Knows it. Welcome to Tullus d'Shebalin {Hall of Rogues}, where you will become a master thief and learn to Rule those who cannot rule themselves.</font></em>
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    [QUOTE] I think you should be added to the list of reasons you can dump a BM.  If she sleeps with your FI, attacks you, or is qtxvixen-in which case dump her, move and leave no forwarding address.
    Posted by JoyTate1[/QUOTE]

    Ha!

    Did anyone else instantly think of Fantastic Four by this thread's title?

    And OP, your comment about gay men is offensive. Shame on you. Also, someone who tells others to go get an education should really be more careful about her own posts. You have I-capping errors, blatant made-up words, hyphen mistakes, and an inability to form proper paragraphs.

    *sits patiently and waits for QT to continue her delusion about my wild hot passion for her BSC ways*
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    My goodness, some one is attention seeking.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flame On! Please reach 300! : Well, in Ravenblack Roleplay, there are Shebalin.  Apparently, we are thieving, rogue vampires, which I think I can live with: There are those who walk Inside The City who think they are gods. Then there are those who walk above the City and Rule the gods themselves. We are thought of as the Lowest of the City's vampires. Until we walk behind them and reveal to them who we really are. We are the Best at what we do, and we will Make damn sure that Everybody Dead and Alive Knows it. Welcome to Tullus d'Shebalin {Hall of Rogues}, where you will become a master thief and learn to Rule those who cannot rule themselves.
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    Too bad she didn't even know how to spell her own insult before throwing it. Who needs an education now?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flame On! Please reach 300! : Well, in Ravenblack Roleplay, there are Shebalin.  Apparently, we are thieving, rogue vampires, which I think I can live with: There are those who walk Inside The City who think they are gods. Then there are those who walk above the City and Rule the gods themselves. We are thought of as the Lowest of the City's vampires. Until we walk behind them and reveal to them who we really are. We are the Best at what we do, and we will Make damn sure that Everybody Dead and Alive Knows it. Welcome to Tullus d'Shebalin {Hall of Rogues}, where you will become a master thief and learn to Rule those who cannot rule themselves.
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, I think I can live with this too. In fact, it sounds kind of exciting.
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    So she does get some things right, huh Tide? Me likey.
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