We just mailed 2 of our invites to our parents to make sure they get there ok, and the bow makes a small bump...no problem it was only 20 cents extra, but the stamped it with that bright red stamp! There is nothing I can really do at this point. ALL the invites are sealed and stamped and ready to go. Not very happy about this....you would think the post office would have a better solution than that! She said we could try sending one the regular way and have it go through the machine but then I worry that it will be in pieces!