I'm so bummed. For those of you following my posts on FB, we're not having much luck finding a new site for our ceremony without having to spend a lot more than necessary. We're now less than 5 mos away so of course everything is booked; especially in this area where people book 1-2 years in advance for almost everything. I sent an email to Pastor as well as to his wife, who is the coordinator with a few other questions as well as a request to chat with him one on one. I never expected the spiritual struggles I've been faced with since starting the marriage prep and attending more services. Right now, it makes me sad that we may have to settle for having the service at the church. It's somewhere I don't even want to be but I guess as long I focus on FI and the marriage (not so much the ceremony), maybe I can find some peace with it.I am waiting to hear back from our reception venue in regards to using their sunken garden, but I'm not really keen on doing that because I don't want to spend the money, it's fully outdoors (no shelter) and I'm not sure how logistics will work with the tight turn around times at the gallery.