**I'm putting a summary at the bottom now, because I think it's too long!**
Hi! So I wasn't going to make an account on here yet because I'm not engaged yet and I figured people probably wouldn't want me posting, but you guys always give really good advice I feel like and I think you guys could maybe help me. So what I'm saying basically is please don't make fun of me for my wedding date in my profile lol, thats not it, it's just that it's the first year we would even consider getting married because we're only 18 and freshmen in college, and some people are mature enough for marriage at 18 but not us yet lol! We know we want to get married eventually, but we don't want a long engagement so we're just going to wait. So we're kind of "engaged to be engaged" I guess you could say.
ANYWAY lol...so I'm having some trouble with BFs mom. She's a great and nice person, just not to me, if that makes sense. Like she has a lot of friends and is really a great mom to her kids, but she's just not nice to me. I think she feels like I'm trying to control my BF, and I'm really not. He is a man and can make his own decisions and besides that he already has a mom, so he doesn't need me for that lol. He is just really laid back and always has been, so if we're going to go out somewhere I'm the one that initiates it. He just doesn't think of that stuff, you know? He's comfortable just hanging out and doing whatever. He just doesn't care.
But yesterday afternoon/evening was his sisters engagement party. I had to work, and in the morning my car wouldn't start. It's a pretty nice car, not like a lexus but like its pretty new, which is important for later, but like sometimes things just happen and cars don't start. Not my fault. BF offers to drive me in, way before the party, so I accept. Well while I was working (I'm a waitress) I got really dizzy and passed out. Super embarrassing. My manager called my BF and BF wanted to take me to the ER (I was back up again by this time), still like an hour or so before the party, but like 30 mins from his house where the party was. So we get to the hospital, I get into the room, and I tell BF to go to the party because I'll be fine and don't want his mom to flip out. He was like 30 mins late getting there and missed the "SURPRISE" (there were like 115 people there, so I doubt his sister even noticed) but his mom caught him sneaking in through the back door. I went home that evening (my roommate picked me up) after they said I was just dehydrated and anemic.
This morning at like 8 BFs mom shows up at BFs dorm and asks him to call me over (kinda hard to describe, but I'm basically 2 buildings over) to have a "meeting". So I get there and she basically tears into me saying that she's sick of my "power plays" and she can't believe I kept him from such an important family event and if my car doesn't work I need to get a new one, like I just have the disposible income to buy her ideal magical car that has some perfect battery that never dies. She made me feel like the worst person ever, and I'm kinda curious as to whether or not other people think she's right?
SUMMARY: Not engaged yet, in college, BFs mom doesn't like me based on misinformation and flipped out at me because her son dropped me off at the hospital making him a little late to a family event. Wondering if I'm actually the "bad guy" here! Thanks! Sorry for the novel lol!