OBEY in your vows..me and my mom and guy friend who is a pastor was talking about the vows and he wanted to stress to me that taking the word OBEY out is not following the christian way and that if we want to have a Godly blessed marriage that word must remian in our vows !
What are your thoughts ladies ?


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Re: did you have the word....
When they say obey..its not like slavish...the husband is the head of the household..although you communicate and discuss things..the husband ultimately has the final discision..you have roles as husband and wife..I think its just to make sure those roles dont get twisted or confused..there is reasoning for them.
Im not sure the lord would shun your marriage if you changed the wording..but didnt want to take any chances..lol
How do you feel, are you leaning more one way or the other?