So... My FI and I planned on getting married early May of 2012. We found out last month that his brother who is the best man is getting deployed in April and wont be home until November. Well.. It's an outside venue or I wouldn't care about postponing it but am i being completely selfish for wanting to have the wedding without him?
I just think it's shitty that this entire wedding is possibly being planned around ONE PERSON!
I would love for him to be there obviously, he's my brother in law! But I really don't want to wait until winter and have it be so cold outside. And I DONT want to wait until spring 2013.
Is there a way to go about this in a way that I don't sound like a complete bitch for wanting to have it without him?
HELP!