Just to see how crazy you ladies really are....hahahaha

Audrey&Austin · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:8467c662-3269-4f42-bf35-e3f1cda4af47">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : Actually, no. I've been to a full Catholic service, and never once moaned or groaned. Why? Because I've got some damn class and was there for the people getting married, not the booze. Talk about class... Are you kidding me? That's stupid to say. I LOVE that you are trying to tell us about that. Riiiiiiight. Seems like you're the one lacking in etiquette in inviting 500 people to a "wedding" whereby you get gifts from people who aren't important enough to attend your ceremony, but sure are important enough to actually get something from, you gift grabby snot.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]
This! <div>
</div><div>And OP, I wish I could reach through the computer to smack some common sense and some common decency!! You are extremely rude and all of your excuses for being a "gift grabby snot" are horrid and none of them work.</div>

polichik · April 2010

Kati, we rock.

Pink7781 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:0e79487b-b705-441b-b9ed-ad4a5f7dcfa1">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I'd rather invite someone and them not come, than not invite them and hurt their feelings! Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

Do you not realize that you aren't doing this? You ARE inviting some people and not others? Why are you failing to understand this?

ohwhynot · April 2010

Lopezk, back the eff off. OF COURSE the OP is completely and totally wrong about teh whole tiered reception thing. But your "hey look! it's her second wedding, too!" and "hey look! she's not even inviting her own parents!" is obnoxious and irrelevant.

Kati0105 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:e26c3c47-feb6-4424-999b-7f78676d8465">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]Kati, we rock.
Posted by polichik[/QUOTE]

Do we? I'm feeling kind of bad about myself since I accepted DH's initial non-perfect proposal. Should I have made him work harder for it? Is our marriage even legit?

BecW2be · April 2010

Awwww, they're so cute when they're BSC.

Your local posts say you don't even have a venue anymore, Little Ms. Looney. WTF are you going to put 150 wedding guests and 500 snack time guests now?

salt78 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:28eb91c9-9c36-4188-b057-38eb55380b4f">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I see no point in my friends and co-workers having to sit through a 45 minute ceremony when they are only there for the alcohol anyways! Because, lets be honest...you catty little b*****es have all been guilty of moaning and groaning about having to sit through a long wedding!
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I like booze as much as the next gal, but when I RSVP yes to a wedding, I'm going because I actually want to see the people get married. You sound like have some shitty friends.

</div>

salt78 · April 2010

And yeah that is definitely not the kind of proposal story I'd be bragging about.

Although I guess by your standards I'm not even really married because my H didn't get down on his knee when he proposed. Sads.

lopezk · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:9040fa4e-a83d-4abd-815a-a17989644370">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]Lopezk, back the eff off. OF COURSE the OP is completely and totally wrong about teh whole tiered reception thing. But your "hey look! it's her second wedding, too!" and "hey look! she's not even inviting her own parents!" is obnoxious and irrelevant.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

UMM NO I DONT THINK I WILL. THANKS FOR PLAYING THOUGH!

Annie_Warbucks · April 2010

Never in my life have I heard a more ridiculous wedding planning disaster.

salt78 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:3b35bd15-9244-4a34-8b5a-c2388672ad87">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : UMM NO I DONT THINK I WILL. THANKS FOR PLAYING THOUGH!
Posted by lopezk[/QUOTE]

<div>Freak.</div>

kate51485 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:9040fa4e-a83d-4abd-815a-a17989644370">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]Lopezk, back the eff off. OF COURSE the OP is completely and totally wrong about teh whole tiered reception thing. But your "hey look! it's her second wedding, too!" and "hey look! she's not even inviting her own parents!" is obnoxious and irrelevant.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

Are you seriously defending the OP? THAT would be obnoxious.

Koopa17 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:3b35bd15-9244-4a34-8b5a-c2388672ad87">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : UMM NO I DONT THINK I WILL. THANKS FOR PLAYING THOUGH!
Posted by lopezk[/QUOTE]

Yeesh, what an embarrassing comeback.

Audrey&Austin · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:f08774e3-304e-42bc-9ce1-34971fe94d6c">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]Awwww, they're so cute when they're BSC. Your local posts say you don't even have a venue anymore, Little Ms. Looney. WTF are you going to put 150 wedding guests and 500 snack time guests now?
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]
I saw this as well... Now I'm confused how this is all going to happen since there isn't even a venue anymore! This is just a horrible, train wreck of a wedding

andy71781 · April 2010

What does BSC mean?

lopezk · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:06d8c7fa-58f6-490f-bd89-fa1877658879">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : Are you seriously defending the OP? THAT would be obnoxious.
Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

Yes it seems like she is. She is only attacking because I'm considered to be a 'newbie' around here. It's like some sort of hazing possibly.

[Deleted User] · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:3b35bd15-9244-4a34-8b5a-c2388672ad87">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : UMM NO I DONT THINK I WILL. THANKS FOR PLAYING THOUGH!
Posted by lopezk[/QUOTE]

Wait. What is this fight about? I'm confused.

AmoroAgain · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:123b2d82-54ea-4b1f-b619-3752eef69e2f">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone? : Yes it seems like she is. She is only attacking because I'm considered to be a 'newbie' around here. It's like some sort of hazing possibly.
Posted by lopezk[/QUOTE]

No, but I do think you're being a little bit crazy yourself. I did the eye roll at the parents thing because I didn't invite my father. you don't know the situation about that so that's not something you should judge. Not to mention your all caps response was just rando.

kate51485 · April 2010

Don't get too flattered, LopezK, I think your response was sorta dumb, but I genuinely am wondering if Ohwhynot thinks OP is in her right mind.

Koopa17 · April 2010

I don't really see how that's defending the OP, moreso defending second marriages and people who don't have great relationships with their parents. But what do I know?

And also, lopez, just b/c she disagreed with you doesn't mean you're being hazed for being a newb. I'm disagreeing with you, and I don't give two fucks about hazing you.

[Deleted User] · April 2010

Oh. Okay. Well, all that crap you just posted makes your silly wedding idea totally okay.

ETA: That was for the OP, not Koopa.

salt78 · April 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: It's like some sort of hazing possibly.
Posted by lopezk[/QUOTE]

<div>Or maybe it's because you were actually being a little obnoxious. The bizarre all caps response definitely didn't help.</div>

AmoroAgain · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:56d5e839-c37b-4655-a421-6c9d871dfb30">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]You know what...THIS IS MY 2nd wedding...and you know what...I am finally doing it right this time! With the right person! I'm so terribly sorry that you don't believe that women who have made mistakes in the past deserve a great future! You are right as well that I am not inviting my parents. I haven't spoken to my parents since my divorce. To be honest the ONLY time I spoke to my parents in the last 8yrs is for them to tell me I was wrong to get married the first time, wrong to have kids, and wrong to get a divorce. But keep in mind...My father is an abusive alcoholic(as was my first husband)...and my mother puts up with his abuse...therefore I have NO intention of having either of them at my wedding. If you want to go into my profile and into my past posts...go right ahead! If I was ashamed of my past or of my FI or of my engagement or of anything in my life...I wouldn't have posted it across the web for everyone in the world to see. I never asked for anyone to be rude! I asked for an opinion..and apparently no one can do that without being rude! CTgirl30~My venue does not care, because my venue is not supplying the food, music, or alcohol. I am! <strong>You have to remember, we don't all live in a world where our wedding budget is upwards of 10K. I am simple Texas girl who works my A** off for a living saving peoples lives. My kids are my world, and where every spare dime I have goes. I have never once stated that I didn't have the money to feed all 500 nor did I say that any of you were wrong for your opinion. The problem is, most of you "ladies" are big city brides! You think $3000 dresses, $5000 reception venue, and $4000 flowers! I am NOT that way. I am a DIY bride on a budget of MY choice, because I think there are more important things in life than a wedding to remember.</strong> I am having the wedding my FI and I want with who we want. Really, all you would have had to say, is "That's not a good idea, why don't you just invite everyone to avoid hurt feelings". That's simple, to the point, and is does not cause tempers to flair. (BTW..you are sadly mistaken if you believe I am angry..I actually get a kick out of reading all the shiit you "ladies" have to say"
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

Fuuck you biitch. My wedding, all total, was under $5000, where I struggled to make everything work out the way I wanted. So go screw yourself in your "i'm better because I'm cheap" shiit.

goheels05 · April 2010

OWN wasn't defending the OP, she was just annoyed that Lopez brought in completely irrelevant tidbits from other posts in an attempt to get more flaming for the OP, when in reality, several regs are on second weddings or aren't on speaking terms with their parents.

PoopyPants23 · April 2010

Lopez, I didn't get the vibe that she (ohwhynot) was attacking you for being new. I think it's more that her behavior is unacceptable regardless of the other personal issues. A lot of people have second weddings and a lot of people have issues with their families and can't invite them. What if her parents were abusive?

ccallaway03 · April 2010

And....FYI....I got my original venue back...they called and had me confused with another couple the weekend before!

You ladies are fun to get riled up! You have no idea how much my FI and I are LOVING reading your replies!

Kati0105 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:56d5e839-c37b-4655-a421-6c9d871dfb30">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]You know what...THIS IS MY 2nd wedding...and you know what...I am finally doing it right this time! With the right person! I'm so terribly sorry that you don't believe that women who have made mistakes in the past deserve a great future! You are right as well that I am not inviting my parents. I haven't spoken to my parents since my divorce. To be honest the ONLY time I spoke to my parents in the last 8yrs is for them to tell me I was wrong to get married the first time, wrong to have kids, and wrong to get a divorce. But keep in mind...My father is an abusive alcoholic(as was my first husband)...and my mother puts up with his abuse...therefore I have NO intention of having either of them at my wedding. If you want to go into my profile and into my past posts...go right ahead! If I was ashamed of my past or of my FI or of my engagement or of anything in my life...I wouldn't have posted it across the web for everyone in the world to see. I never asked for anyone to be rude! I asked for an opinion..and apparently no one can do that without being rude! CTgirl30~My venue does not care, because my venue is not supplying the food, music, or alcohol. I am! You have to remember, we don't all live in a world where our wedding budget is upwards of 10K. I am simple Texas girl who works my A** off for a living saving peoples lives. My kids are my world, and where every spare dime I have goes. I have never once stated that I didn't have the money to feed all 500 nor did I say that any of you were wrong for your opinion. The problem is, most of you "ladies" are big city brides! You think $3000 dresses, $5000 reception venue, and $4000 flowers! I am NOT that way. I am a DIY bride on a budget of MY choice, because I think there are more important things in life than a wedding to remember. I am having the wedding my FI and I want with who we want. Really, all you would have had to say, is "That's not a good idea, why don't you just invite everyone to avoid hurt feelings". That's simple, to the point, and is does not cause tempers to flair. (BTW..you are sadly mistaken if you believe I am angry..I actually get a kick out of reading all the shiit you "ladies" have to say"
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

But if budget is an issue for you, why invite 500 guests? And why send STDs at all when those are just extra money? You're contradicting yourself.

emilyinchile · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:56d5e839-c37b-4655-a421-6c9d871dfb30">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]The problem is, most of you "ladies" are big city brides! You think $3000 dresses, $5000 reception venue, and $4000 flowers!
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

You don't know that, and you're wrong. Many people here are on budgets, and I don't even know how you go about spending $4k on flowers. Don't try to hide behind the excuse that "we don't understand your budget" in order to justify what you're doing.

Also, if you're inviting 20 kids, I don't see why you would use that as your big defense in terms of how many guests you have. And if anyone on your guest list doesn't care about watching you get married, they're shitty friends, and you should probably just not invite them. Sounds like that would cut your guest list down to 150 pretty easily.

salt78 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:56d5e839-c37b-4655-a421-6c9d871dfb30">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]The problem is, most of you "ladies" are big city brides! You think $3000 dresses, $5000 reception venue, and $4000 flowers! I am NOT that way. I am a DIY bride on a budget of MY choice, because I think there are more important things in life than a wedding to remember. I am having the wedding my FI and I want with who we want.
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

<div>WTF are you talking about? I got married in $600 dress and only had 15 guests. My bridesmaids bouquets cost me $100 and mine was free. </div><div>
</div><div>You're crazier than a sack full of ferrets. </div>

maratea · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_schedule-word-not-offend-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4eab07c6-a957-4768-bf7f-99759727eb6dPost:56d5e839-c37b-4655-a421-6c9d871dfb30">Re: How do I schedule and word so as not to offend anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]The problem is, most of you "ladies" are big city brides! You think $3000 dresses, $5000 reception venue, and $4000 flowers! I am NOT that way. I am a DIY bride on a budget of MY choice, because I think there are more important things in life than a wedding to remember.
Posted by ccallaway03[/QUOTE]

You've been on the DIY board, correct? There are plenty of "big city" brides on those boards. Living in a big city =/= super wealth. In fact, big city people might have smaller budgets because the cost of living is higher. No one said anything about having a $50k wedding, chill.

Just to see how crazy you ladies really are....hahahaha

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