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Wedding Etiquette Forum
CharityH30
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Does No STD = No Invitation?
We'll be sending invitations soon for our August wedding. Do you think it will look rude of me to invite someone who did not receive a save the date a few months ago?
I believe that A lists and B lists are rude, but do people expect/understand that there will be some guest list editing and re-editing before final invitations are sent out? I'm not cutting anyone that did receive a save the date. I just didn't send them to everyone that we wanted to invite as we weren't sure of the venue capacity yet. If a particular party knows we sent STDs but didn't receive one, should I contact them prior to sending the invitations to explain that there may have been confusion, but they are invited?
Thank you for any advice.
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Re: Does No STD = No Invitation?
No need to call them and explain anything. Send them an invitation. They'll understand they're invited.
We sent them out to family and friends, but not to my FI's work buddies. We're then going to send out our invites a little earlier so we get an idea of the number we are looking at, so we then know how many invites we can send to his work (he is in the military so there are a LOT of people to choose from.. so we don't want to offend them by having a work A list and work B list.. better to do all at once :P )
Perfectly fine to send an invitaion to some one who did not get a save the date.
we are only sending save the dates to people out of state, so they have longer to plan for travel.