AYG

sarabear23 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:2b12b973-d66a-456c-93ad-2d2a5f9ef15c">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : I think it depends on how close Sarabear is with the brother's girlfriend's mom. When FI's brother's wife's parents got divorced (if you guys remembre, it's the guy who left his wife for his 28yo gf) I cried so hard. But it's because I know them well (despite the few degrees of separation) and I was so sad for them. If she isn't close to them, then yeah it's kinda weird. I'm all for praying for people who need the prayers, but it's strange to aske for T&Ps for someone you're not that connected to to begin with.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

<div>They've been dating 3 years, its not like she was some 'flavor of the month'. Our families weren't super close, but this girl lost her mother, and best friend. It's a horrible situation, and apparently I was wrong in coming here for support.</div><div>
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Steph0871 · December 2011

and the award for overreaction goes to sara.

Who said anything about flavor of the month?! And, does the brother's girlfriend now you shared information about her mom on a public forum?

Like I said, T&P threads weird me out anyway, when they're not about you.

ahhhitsshannyn · December 2011

Wow, I would never post pictures like that of me on the web. That is just insane, but steph hit the nail on the head- she obviously thinks highly of herself already and knew everyone would tell her she looked great. The PS board is full of really weird people.

ETA- except for DJ of course

maratea · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:30cee504-90ad-4cf7-a2b5-efe606bbf95e">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Why in the hell would you put those on the internet for all to see? No matter what size you are, that's just not internet-smart. The PS board seems to think their little corner of the internet is in a bubble that no one can see. I don't understand it.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
Seriously. I mean, people have to know that there are going to be jizz-splattered computer screens as a direct result of their naughty bits being AW'd all over the interwebs.

ETA: Fuuck, I posted too fast. The thought of that ^ ^ would gross me out enough to not put those pics up.

SarahPLiz · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:3a326791-bf48-4c1b-b555-996b02c58f06">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Wait, do you mean the Pinterest P's?
Posted by Ash2985[/QUOTE]
Those are for Pinterest? Damn, I'm slow. Either way, Joy is the only one allowed to have such a logo on her. I keep reading posts and thinking "WHat's up with Joy today? THis is not like her" and its not her.. <div>
</div><div>FWIW, I don't do pinterest..</div>

mehgank · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:c1f59a69-9010-465b-af98-c098d3603dfd">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]I think Megh needs to let up on the amount of personal info she posts on her. I know everyone has a different comfort level with what they share, but the info she shared about her sister in the morning thread crossed a line to me. I don't feel details that specific are her's to share.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]

I accept that flame. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. And Sarah was right, I was in complete and utter shock. It had given me nightmares all night. I even said in my OP that I was feeling so many things that I couldn't articulate them. I'll step away from TK next time something tragic happens.

ahhhitsshannyn · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:794f0d2b-7d11-4346-8113-1e982ff73ccd">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Seriously. I mean, people have to know that there are going to be <strong>jizz-splattered computer screens</strong>as a direct result of their naughty bits being AW'd all over the interwebs.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

Gross. Seriously, my H would be pissed if I put pictures like that online of myself.

Ash2985 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:f0f8c725-d289-4ae7-92e1-d9db8e34cd49">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Those are for Pinterest? Damn, I'm slow. Either way, Joy is the only one allowed to have such a logo on her. I keep reading posts and thinking "WHat's up with Joy today? THis is not like her" and its not her.. FWIW, I don't do pinterest..
Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]
Nah, not slow, I just couldn't figure out what you meant! And I always think of the Phillies too. And I even have one in my freaking signature.

J&K10910 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:2bebbc78-9e82-49a9-bc52-566e5b12ee79">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Gross. Seriously, my H would be pissed if I put pictures like that online of myself.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

My god, yes.

Bkseller13 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:1666de18-773c-4107-986d-32c42f93a383">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : I accept that flame. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. And Sarah was right, I was in complete and utter shock. It had given me nightmares all night. I even said in my OP that I was feeling so many things that I couldn't articulate them. I'll step away from TK next time something tragic happens.
Posted by mehgank[/QUOTE]

Personally, I think that sometimes, like Sarah said, you just have to get it out. But, there is a fine line between vagueknotting and TMI-ing. It's sometimes hard to know where the line is. And sometimes the emotions run so high you can't stand it.

ski2play · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:856c4bc4-be43-4c3d-9b7d-25a2b3786427">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]I have a current achiduck flame. According to her, 60 is too old to have a bridal shower or go all out for a wedding.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

whew, glad I am only 46 as I head into my wedding festivities.....

sarabear23 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:4d04fc98-d8cc-4361-b549-82ecd4de3e1c">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]and the award for overreaction goes to sara. Who said anything about flavor of the month?! And, does the brother's girlfriend now you shared information about her mom on a public forum? Like I said, T&P threads weird me out anyway, when they're not about you.
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

<div>No one directly said it, but that's the vibe I got from reading everyones posts. And, yes she does.</div><div>I don't care if they weird you out. You don't have to read it, and you certainly don't have to like everything that's posted here.</div>

Steph0871 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:0804cead-51c4-41a7-81a8-958a86f980ce">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : No one directly said it, but that's the vibe I got from reading everyones posts. And, yes she does. <strong>I don't care if they weird you out. You don't have to read it, and you certainly don't have to like everything that's posted here</strong>.
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]

True. And I can certainly say they weird me out. Which brings me back to my original flame.

Would you like another trip around this circle?

sarabear23 · December 2011

Considering that would involve more interaction with you, I'm going to have to decline.

Steph0871 · December 2011

NO. I know there were a few this week that I was like "I wish we still did AYG."

But, as discussed before, I have a terrible TK memory

J&K10910 · December 2011

sara, I guess I don't understand why you're only going after Steph. She's not the only one that said something.

Steph0871 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:535c64d6-f12d-44a6-b8a2-d677e4582020">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Considering that would involve more interaction with you, I'm going to have to decline.
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]

Well aren't you just a peach. Glad to know you're one of those people who can't disagree without making a big fucking fit about it.

J&K10910 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:8784fb40-bc17-4c73-b6c3-18275ee1e099">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]NO. I know there were a few this week that I was like "I wish we still did AYG." But, as discussed before, I have a terrible TK memory ;)
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

Wait, did we officially stop or something?

sarabear23 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:1a71387d-b221-4ba9-a56c-d9116daad620">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]sara, I guess I don't understand why you're only going after Steph. She's not the only one that said something.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

<div>No, she isn't. </div><div>The first post I responded to, I quoted chels.</div>

Bkseller13 · December 2011

I keep telling myself that I need to take notes. But then I realize that I really don't care all that much. Usually, I'll read something and think, "Wow that was bitchy," then I move on. I figure if I can't remember it for more than a day or two, it must not have upset me that much.

Steph0871 · December 2011

No, not really J. I just never had anything annoying enough to actually start an AYG.... and no one else was doing it either.

I'm glad you did though

J&K10910 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:636ffb5c-9dcb-462c-b1af-a22602b036b8">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : No, she isn't. The first post I responded to, I quoted chels.
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]

Oh, my bad. I guess it just seemed like you had a specific beef with Steph with the way you're posting.

Bkseller13 · December 2011

Sara- I think that you're feeling attacked when you shouldn't. All people were saying is that it seemed a little "6 Degrees of Kevin Bacon" for you to ask for T&P for her. For those that do the T&Ps, it seems like it's usually kept to immediate family or selves. That's my 2 cents, for what it's worth.

J&K10910 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:c1a8c17e-51c8-4d34-b57f-fb13d48e1b4d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]No, not really J. I just never had anything annoying enough to actually start an AYG.... and no one else was doing it either. I'm glad you did though ;)
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

Well, good. Even if we had stopped, I wouldn't have felt bad. Ha.

chelseamb11 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:0804cead-51c4-41a7-81a8-958a86f980ce">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : No one directly said it, but that's the vibe I got from reading everyones posts. And, yes she does. I don't care if they weird you out. <strong>You don't have to read it, and you certainly don't have to like everything that's posted here.</strong>
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]

Oh whew. I thought I had to read everything. I should pick up a new hobby with all the free time I just acquired from this realization ;)

Nebb · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:535c64d6-f12d-44a6-b8a2-d677e4582020">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Considering that would involve more interaction with you, I'm going to have to decline.
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]
seriously youre the worst, you post the most random stuff and get so butthurt when people say something.

Steph0871 · December 2011

That's part of it, BK. I also get the vibe that's Sara's pretty immature, too, though. So I admit her stuff usually comes across extra annoying for me.

MeaghanandMichael · December 2011

I like vibe threads. I like the sense of community people feel here and the way they can get things out or express themselves. I don't like vibe-exclusion, but I also hate to say some one can't express they think a certain vibe request is weird - so there's that. It feels no win and not the type of thing I would ever want for people to think there is a final ruling on if that makes sense.

Have I felt weird before not responding to a vibe thread while at the same time being active in other threads? Sure. But, like others have said, I know who I am close to and I know what threads I am going to open just like any other thread on here. I will say to some extent posters on here are probably just uncomfortable not giving vibes when tons other people are. Posters need to get over that discomfort just like any butthurtedness the vibe asker may get for people not responding.

chelseamb11 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:50a441f7-89dd-4b08-ac54-cf5c73f0327dPost:636ffb5c-9dcb-462c-b1af-a22602b036b8">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : No, she isn't. <strong> The first post I responded to, I quoted chels.</strong>
Posted by sarabear23[/QUOTE]

Which, ironically, was the first post that potentially stood up for you when you weren't here to do so yourself.

ahhhitsshannyn · December 2011

When people say "flame accepted" or "I accept your flame" I feel like there is about to be a fight to the death or something. Like they just accepted a challenge. And that is usually the opposite of what happens when someone says that.

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