Sorry for just throwing this out there, but I thought this was better than plastered all over facebook and ruining friendships.
So my friend of about 20 years (we're mid 30's) knew she was getting engaged but didnt want to make an official announcement because they were getting the ring specially made. She moved away to texas about 3 years ago. We've never been super close i was mainly her older sisters friend, but we're still close. We'll she came up back in February. Me, her mom, her sister, and one of her other friends went out shopping and to dinner. At dinner she asked her sister, her friend, and I to be in the wedding. Sure, no problem. I admit was a little surprised she asked me. Okay, fast forward to last weekend. She was up for another visit. She had a barbecue at her dads. I could only stay for an hour because my kid was at his friends house and was being dropped off. So today I get an email. I gotta admit, it was super cute! It was a link announcing her engagement (pictures with music). Apparently after I left her boyfriend proposed to her at the barbecue. So as i'm watching the pictures one pops up "My bridal party" it's her, her sister, her friend, and some other girl. So i text her and i'm like "hey, did I get kicked out of the wedding? I hope I atleast get an invite to it". she texted back and said she just got so busy she forgot and she thought her sister would say something to me and she had to drop 2 out of her party because her fiance only had 3. blah blah blah.
My problem? So was she even going to TELL me? i'm a litte hurt and a little mad that she didn't have the decensy (sp?) to let me know right off the bat. I don't know what i'm looking for here. I guess I just needed to get that off my chest. Thanks in advance for listening.
