Yep...I had one bite the dust today. She is worried that she won't be able to afford all of the wedding costs. Her husband is getting out of the MC and he doesn't have another job lined up. His is the only income and they just had a baby. I'm not upset, I just want her to be able to actually come to the wedding. I was her MOH(and only attendant) last year and spent a pretty penny to make it all happen but I'm in a much better place financially.
I don't think we're going to replace her because a couple of FI's guys are questionable, too...pilots.
Wah, I wish she could come play :-(