We are a little over a month away from our wedding, so I am starting to get all of the little details in order. I want to start working on our programs, but am curious as to the best way to list a bridesmaid who won't be attending.
Unfortunately, she lives out of the country and informed me a few weeks ago that she won't be able to afford her flight here and that I should find someone to replace her. I won't replace her; she was asked because she is one of my best friends, not because she is a prop.
Is it inappropriate to still list her? How do I go about listing her while making it clear she is absent without making it sound like she has passed away or something equally depressing?
I won't write:
Bridesmaid - absent due to finances
But was thinking something like:
Bridesmaid in absentia
Also toyed with "Honorary" bridesmaid, but think it sounds a bit demeaning, especially given that she would be standing with the rest of the ladies if she were able to attend.