My sis is planning a Bachelorette party for me. I don't care for them, but we are going pole dancing so it works for me! My question is, who should she invite? She seems to think she needs our wedding guest list (which we haven't finalized yet) but I told her she only needs that list for the Wedding Shower she is insisting on throwing. Isn't it ok to just have friends & cousins (who are invited to the wedding) attend the Bachelorette? I see it as just a night out to have fun. Thanks!