When my fiancee and I went for our first pre-marital session the pastor informed him that he has to inform his ex wife.
This bothers me as they have joint custody (week on/.week off) and when the kids are visiting me and she phones, they get scared and nervous. She is very opinionated, always right, and has a major hate on for her ex. She was physically abusive to him (spitting, hitting, yelling, etc) not that he was perfect.
How do you tell the ex?