I've never noticed how many uptight people there are out there. well, uptight, antsy, and on edge people. I'm a very relaxed person, so to me (and everyone who knows me well) being relaxed the week of my wedding seems fine. FI and I had a pot luck with his friends and their families last Thursday. I can't tell you how many of those women commented on how relaxed I was so close to my wedding. And when I asked "How should I be?" the said more stressed than I was. I guess I don't understand why I should be stressed. Everything is all ready, counts in to the caterer and baker, table seating figured out, place cards filled out, marriage license in hand...Now all I have to do is get pampered (hair nails and make up), put on a pretty dress, and marry my perfect man! What's so stressful about that?