I feel kinda silly that I'm this excited but I told my boyfriend when we first started dating that I wanted a pearl ring before I got an engagment ring. Well...I got my pearl for Christmas this year. I know I'm not engaged but I am so excited because I know that it is coming now. I have also told him that I have a date picked out. We realized this year that our parents have the same anniversary. They were both married on Sept 15th (several years apart as my boyfriend is 9 years older than me.) I want to get married on the same day and the next time that is on a weekend is 2012. My mom thinks this is way to long for us to wait but I think it would be SO special especially because we are both so close to our parents. I also had a friend tell me this wasn't fair because it would take away from our parents anniversaries. What does everyone think...am I crazy for getting this excited and do you think using this date is wrong?